Cam116 Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 If you and your ex (the dumper) mutually agreed on NC for a while in order to fully heal and eventually resume a mutual friendship, and your ex sent you a birthday card on your birthday, would you wish them a friendly happy birthday in return? Or stick to the agreed NC?
fabulousgal Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Been there, done that (not this break up but another). Leave it alone. It won't change a d* thing. You'll just feel worse.
fabulousgal Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I just realized you were sent a card. But I think that is kind of crappy on your ex's part if they dumped you. You aren't going to heal that way.
BOSSHOGG5 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 My ex sent me a card for my birthday and tried texting me three times that day. I ignored all of it because I felt it was out of line. She left me, married another man (the one you left me and your kids for), she has no right On the flip side her birthday was last month and I sent nothing and said nothing. NC all the way for me and my peace of mind.
enforcer Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I agree with the above post. She gets NOTHING from you. The audacity! Hang in there man, it will get better! Don't give her control by responding to her card.
Harradin Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Nothing, use the money you would have spent on them on yourself. 2
Jord11 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 My Ex's birthday is next month, 51 days nc today, she ain't getting NOTHING from me
lop98 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Ex's birthday is in 2 months. I've been sending wishes and whatnot every single year since like 2005, when we were friends. Feel it this year, bastard. N-O-T-H-I-N-G. Can't wait. 1
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