Jonah Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 Alcohol is great for dissolving everything... inhibitions and marriages included. Think about it. Would this have happened if she were stone cold sober? I'm trying to imagine... what bar is this that has an accessible dark room in the back? I don't know but it sounds like a bad environment to me. It does matter Mack. Just taking her to a place where she can chat with other men over drinks sends a message that you don't care. If you want her to be a virtuous woman, take her to wholesome places. If you wouldn't mind her being a bit risque, bring her to risque places. Not talking down to you guy... just talking from experience. 1
Author mack25 Posted April 27, 2013 Author Posted April 27, 2013 Alcohol is great for dissolving everything... inhibitions and marriages included. Think about it. Would this have happened if she were stone cold sober? I'm trying to imagine... what bar is this that has an accessible dark room in the back? I don't know but it sounds like a bad environment to me. It does matter Mack. Just taking her to a place where she can chat with other men over drinks sends a message that you don't care. If you want her to be a virtuous woman, take her to wholesome places. If you wouldn't mind her being a bit risque, bring her to risque places. Not talking down to you guy... just talking from experience. I can say with near certainty that it old not happened if there was no alcohol 1
Jonah Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 It would be good if you and her could use the incidence as an example of how easy it is to be torn apart, join forces in protecting each other and the marriage. Rather than pushing blame separately, sharing it. Become one like that. Sharing credit, and when things go wrong, sharing the blame. Make a pact to learn from mistakes. That's how couples become really close.
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