starrynightz45 Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I met a shy guy at school who got my number eventually, and began texting me every single day. We went out on 1 date, which went great. Unfortunately my ex (6 yr relationship, broke up 3 months prior to this) came back into the picture, and I told the new guy I was a little mixed up about things. Later I told him I'd made up my mind about not getting back together with the ex, but the new guy completely backed off and stopped texting/calling. He said he didn't want to be a factor in my decision. A few weeks later, I went to his art show. He told me I looked good multiple times. He complimented my shoes and my hair. He told me a story about this girl from class he doesn't like, saying that she's "just another generic girl." And then he said "I'm glad you're not like that" (a save, being friendly, or flirting? I don't know). He also told me that he's generally a rude guy. I said I actually thought he was a nice guy and he said "well I'm nice to YOU." At school, he alternates between ignoring me, and giving me lingering eye contact. Most of the time when I walk past him, I'll notice him quickly turn his head and look at me, but then turn back again. On Friday, I felt like dressing up so I wore this new coral spring dress I bought. I put my hair down and styled it, which I usually don't do at school. When I went to class, he walked in and said "You look very nice today." Again, this is totally something that I guess could be friendly. After class we walked back to the parking lot separately, but we were on the same floor so I caught up to him and asked him how things were going. Then I said have a good weekend, and picked up my pace, walking to my car. He walked up to my car, and asked if I'd had my car repaired yet (I had an accident a month before). I said no, not yet but I would get around to it eventually. He said "oh alright..well, c you Monday." And he left. I'm pretty confused at this point. I haven't dated much in my life, so I'm not really sure if he's flirting or just being nice. He said he didn't want to be involved in the ex situation, and that he wasn't "looking for anything" but I continue to catch him staring and I'm not sure if he's the type of guy who regularly compliments girls because he is a little awkward/shy, at least in interactions with me, but I'm not sure how he interacts with other girls. Any ideas?
todreaminblue Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 yes he likes you, do you want him to ? what do you feel about that?
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