redrouge Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I was seeing a guy for about a month up until I went on holiday it was going fine we had made plans for the next day to do something and when the day came he didn't get in contact with me and didn't reply to any messages that I had sent. Then after a few days of no contact I was getting a bit stressed out so sent him a message asking what was happening and he told me that something had happened with his family and that we should stop seeing eachother. I was just wondering should this just be left and brush it off, or should I try to get in contact with him again? Would he even want this?
soccerrprp Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 No indication that he is interested in getting back with you. He even said so. Forget the family thing...if it were just that, he wouldn't have just cut it off like that. Move on. If he's really interested, he'll contact you. 1
curlygirl40 Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I think you should leave it alone. He might have a valid reason but it's kinda rude in my opinion anyway the way he's handling it. Why would you invite that back into your life? Leave the ball in his court.
Gottabestrong Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 This sucks. But I suggest you leave it alone and don't contact him anymore. If he wanted to see you again he would not have ignored the plans you made and then sent you a cold message about not seeing each other again. I am sorry, but it sounds like he is not interested in you anymore. Try to forget him ASAP!
TigerCub Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 He found another girl; forget it ever happened Maybe, or maybe that "family" thing he was referring to was his wife finding out about OP 2
Mary Shadows Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I have had this happen to myself. It sucks. Try to keep busy with other things. If he wants to contact you, he will.
Lani Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 If he wanted to see you, he would make an effort. You forced him into saying something about not seeing each other by sending him a follow up text. Don't make him do it again. You'll just look desperate.
dasein Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Yep, just move on. He is trying to let you down easy with a white lie, or is a douche for not taking 2 minutes to contact. Either way, time for better options. Good luck.
Poppy fields Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 he is not a douche because women do it too Woman can be douches, too. That doesn't make him less of a douche. Or not a douche. Christ, how many times can I say douche in one post? 1
Djz05 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Woman can be douches, too. That doesn't make him less of a douche. Or not a douche. Christ, how many times can I say douche in one post? As much as you need to make a point
Poppy fields Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 As much as you need to make a point I guess so.
mortensorchid Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Whatever his reasons, he's done. I don't buy this family excuse whatever that means. If he's interested he would contact you, but you're not with him anymore and he's moving onto something else. I'm sorry he did this to you the way he did, he's mean and cowardly to do this, and you don't want someone who treats you like that. Forget him.
Vogeltron Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 (edited) I have to admit I did this once when I was like 22 or so. Never lied to somebody that I it was some kind of family thing. But I had a girl really interested in me that I wasn't attracted to and everything else. I didn't have the heart to tell her I really wasn't that interested in her so I just ignored her. Jerk move on my part I know. But that is what it kind of sounds like to me. Also I should add we were never in a sexual relationship, had just been on quite a few dates. Edited April 7, 2013 by Vogeltron
apple OR orange Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 in all the years i have seen "dating", this is what i know. The moment they dont contact you, then you contact with "hi, not heard from you in a while" if you get an excuse back like family, kids, friend etc... then its all off move on. Ive had this so many times once they see my pic so i dont bother now with women, i send a pic, sometimes get dates but there all not my type at all.... its the planet telling me i will single so i do other stuff instead (like cars, or motorbikes).
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