CryForNoOne Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Any activity where a man displays a high degree of coordination and ability to carry himself well is VERY sexy to me. I've noticed how men in the military (US) are trained how to walk. Precise, at a lively pace, and with good posture. Proper dance lessons do the same thing. Teaches you how to carry yourself. These two men are amazing... (I love Wendy Whalen too...). I chose Pas De Dieux to demonstrate. um... does this look unmasculine? Your comments about the military remind me of one of my best friends from HS. He was tall, skinny, and SUPER dorky. He was outgoing but in a geeky way. Anyway, he went to West Point and I didn't see him for 7 years until my wedding. When I saw him, he was totally transformed. I mean talk about going from a boy to a man. He was in his formal dress uniform and truly was an "officer and a gentleman". It think its almost mandatory that they learn ballroom and swing dancing at the Academy. Part of their code of chivalry stuff since they have so many formal events. When he danced with the bridesmaid, he completely swept her off her feet. He was the guy in the room that it was so obvious that every single girl wanted. He was such a dork before, he might not have even kissed a girl before college. Most CERTAINLY not the case after West Point. I still think to this day, way to go Steve... 2
FitChick Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Dancing is foreplay irc. But soon as i chuck this damn weight down, and before the end of this yr [i hope] i want to enroll into some form of dance class. Why wait? Ballroom dancing is a great way to lose weight, have fun and meet women. Watch the DVD of the Japanese film, "Shall We Dance?" I've had a couple of men tell me that when they learned to dance, they met lots of women and became much more confident. 1
MrNate 2.0 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Maybe you could learn to tap dance. Or river dance...though that one may requiring traveling.
apple OR orange Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 i dont dance i dont get sex either, so looks like that backs up that idea.
NYC-BigKat Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I was talking to a friend of mine, and he's a very experienced swing dancer. He's one of the very few men I know personally that dances well...and I'm not talking about "Dance club" dancing either, but "Dance Hall" dancing. Basically, any "Dance Hall" with a themed dance like Salsa, East coast (or is it west coast) swing dancing, and so on. Not saying that it's a end all be all in dating, but it DOES help tremendously because women LOVE to dance....and they find it very hard to find men that are into dancing, some have boyfriends that wouldn't touch it with a 10-foot pole either...they see it as somewhat non-masculine. To them it's "sissy stuff" I suppose. lol But, he says even the WOMEN ask the MEN to dance at these Dance Halls, as opposed to the other way around ....because simply put, women love it. Anyone in agreement here...make sense? It might be kinda true yea. I used to try to dance but the girls used to tell me to stop embarrassing myself .
2.50 a gallon Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 When I started high school I was the shortest guy in the school, in fact I was shorter than my sister 6th grade sister. The answer to my social dilemma was getting my sister's friends to teach me to dance. That is when I learned my best pick up line, "Would like to dance?" It served me well over the next 3 decades. Any new step I was anxious to learn, and then I also learned that by practicing I could improve my dancing skills, and the better I danced the more fun I had. I also learned to two-step when I went to the cowboy bars. By far the best time was the disco days, think about it sexy young bodies shaking their booties to a sexy beat and to cure their thirst alcoholic drinks. Even better if you knew and had practiced some dirty dancing moves. I can't recall ever going out by myself, during those days and not bringing somebody home for a ONS, and that did not include the BJ's I quite often got in the parking lot when we stepped outside to cool off and have a smoke. Many men don't get it, dancing for women is an emotional experience, there are some songs that demand that they get up off the keesters and dance, such as Gloria Gaynor, "I will Survive". It is not to draw attention or show off, it is to celebrate this thing called life. 1
jma500 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I think they're just having fun. They are probably completely unaware or just don't care that someone is sitting around somewhere thinking they are making an ass of themselves. I am no movie star, but when I use to just go somewhere and act like a closed off person, getting women was a very uncommon thing. Now I go out, sing at karaoke bars, dance when there is a place to dance, smile, laugh and don't expect anything from women but to enjoy themselves and multiple women everywhere I go are just open to me. I got choices to make, women to choose and it is difficult because they would all be good choices. Leo is a good looking guy, movie star or not. However if he were not a movie star and at that party and behaved in a closed off manner, his choices in women would be extremely few. Once again, if he were not famous, but looked the way he looks and behaved as he did in those pics of that party, there will be a lot of girls...not even the ones he danced with....that will have interest in him and he is going to have a lot of choices. If you are content making a spectacle/fool of yourself to gain attention from others, especially women, fine. But understand you will be seen, especially by women, as that fool in the club/bar/party ever after. Even if leo wasn't rich and famous with his looks he could sit in the corner and still have plenty of women around him. Btw i never expect anything from anyone and i am never disappointed.
jma500 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 When I started high school I was the shortest guy in the school, in fact I was shorter than my sister 6th grade sister. The answer to my social dilemma was getting my sister's friends to teach me to dance. That is when I learned my best pick up line, "Would like to dance?" It served me well over the next 3 decades. Any new step I was anxious to learn, and then I also learned that by practicing I could improve my dancing skills, and the better I danced the more fun I had. I also learned to two-step when I went to the cowboy bars. By far the best time was the disco days, think about it sexy young bodies shaking their booties to a sexy beat and to cure their thirst alcoholic drinks. Even better if you knew and had practiced some dirty dancing moves. I can't recall ever going out by myself, during those days and not bringing somebody home for a ONS, and that did not include the BJ's I quite often got in the parking lot when we stepped outside to cool off and have a smoke. Many men don't get it, dancing for women is an emotional experience, there are some songs that demand that they get up off the keesters and dance, such as Gloria Gaynor, "I will Survive". It is not to draw attention or show off, it is to celebrate this thing called life. you are lucky to be alive then. It was just these types of behaviors in discos during that time that brought about the spread of aids. Which so many people died from.
tbf Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 FFS, people need to learn how to relax and have some fun. If your entire life is focused on concern about the opinions of others, you'll never be good enough since public opinion isn't universal and is fickle as a mofo. 1
jma500 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 FFS, people need to learn how to relax and have some fun. If your entire life is focused on concern about the opinions of others, you'll never be good enough since public opinion isn't universal and is fickle as a mofo. Frankly i don't give damn what anyone thinks of me and i have fun. Photography, ghost hunting, travel, hanging with friends, etc.
greenetree Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I've heard dance classes are regularly overpopulated with men. Dancing is a hot commodity only to certain women. This is an absurd assertion. I've taught swing and salsa classes on a regular basis in both the South and the West Coast. I've almost never witnessed this problem. 1
2sure Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I've taken all kinds of dance lessons....for professional, social, and fitness reasons. I can get by, but I have some degree of fear of dating a man who can actually dance. I have no....I'm clumsy as hell.
Imported Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 If you are content making a spectacle/fool of yourself to gain attention from others, especially women, fine. But understand you will be seen, especially by women, as that fool in the club/bar/party ever after. Even if leo wasn't rich and famous with his looks he could sit in the corner and still have plenty of women around him. Btw i never expect anything from anyone and i am never disappointed. You must have next to no good experience with women if you actually think this. Your reality is not mine, fortunately
SmokeRat Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Dancing is evil incarnate. It shall be the death of me one of these days. Although maybe I should learn how to dance and get over this illogical fear of dancing in public.
greenetree Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 If you are content making a spectacle/fool of yourself to gain attention from others, especially women, fine. But understand you will be seen, especially by women, as that fool in the club/bar/party ever after. Even if leo wasn't rich and famous with his looks he could sit in the corner and still have plenty of women around him. Btw i never expect anything from anyone and i am never disappointed. This is so not the case. A man who can dance is "hot". And man who can't dance but tries is "fun" and probably has good self esteem. The guy who sits in the corner judging everyone else is the real "fool". 1
jma500 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 (edited) You must have next to no good experience with women if you actually think this. Your reality is not mine, fortunately A couple decades of good experiences. My point is someone who acts like a clown is never taken seriously. Edited April 7, 2013 by jma500
jma500 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 This is so not the case. A man who can dance is "hot". And man who can't dance but tries is "fun" and probably has good self esteem. The guy who sits in the corner judging everyone else is the real "fool". I judge no one. I simply observe and comment. I leave judgement to others. Thankfully the entire female gender does not think this way.
StanMusial Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I have had girls tell me before that if a guy is a good dancer it means he is good at sex. Maybe they are wrong, maybe they are right, but if they THINK that then cutting a mean rug is going to work in your favor. If nothing else, they will want to dance with you. In a club/bar setting dancing with a pretty girl is going to help you. Hell I think it's fun. 1
jma500 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I have had girls tell me before that if a guy is a good dancer it means he is good at sex. Maybe they are wrong, maybe they are right, but if they THINK that then cutting a mean rug is going to work in your favor. If nothing else, they will want to dance with you. In a club/bar setting dancing with a pretty girl is going to help you. Hell I think it's fun. The first sentence has no basis in fact whatsoever.
StanMusial Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 The first sentence has no basis in fact whatsoever. I have had more than one girl tell me that, to my face. I saw no need to argue with her over it. Have you ever had a girl tell you otherwise?
jma500 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I have had more than one girl tell me that, to my face. I saw no need to argue with her over it. Have you ever had a girl tell you otherwise? I don't need a woman to tell me whether its true or not. Common sense and the intellect to be able to reason tells me you can't compare apples to oranges. That's why the statement is patently false. While i am not arguing that they said it you, that they actually said that means their intelligence is suspect to say the least. They are probably the same fools that watch jersey shore and think it was an intellectual experience.
tbf Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I have had girls tell me before that if a guy is a good dancer it means he is good at sex.Never heard this before or even thought about it but I can see how someone might draw this conclusion, particularly if they're good at grinding. 1
jma500 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Never heard this before or even thought about it but I can see how someone might draw this conclusion, particularly if they're good at grinding. A guy could be a great dancer but be a virgin and women would have no clue whatsoever. But they will form assumptions.
tbf Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 A guy could be a great dancer but be a virgin and women would have no clue whatsoever. But they will form assumptions.A man can be a virgin and still be great at sex. It's the ability to read the non-verbal cues given, whether dancing or in bed. Sexual empathy. Men who are oblivious to partner cues, whether physical or emotional, don't make good sex partners. 4
jma500 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 A man can be a virgin and still be great at sex. It's the ability to read the non-verbal cues given, whether dancing or in bed. Sexual empathy. Men who are oblivious to partner cues, whether physical or emotional, don't make good sex partners. Nice of you to quote me and then totally miss my point. Thank you for making my point with an assumption.
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