Am4Real Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I give up! p.s. In your case the homework should have been eaten by the dog. Yes ma'am. I may appear a fool through this screen but i did quite a bit of homework on girls, women, the teenage mind, when the frontal lobes of your brain fully develop, where what information is stored in the brain, all that stuff. I tried to navigate this, but ultimately i believe it was my insecurity that was the quick killer of our relationship
Author Kaiten Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 Am4real i get it now. The last 6 lines of your reply is the answer i was asking you for in the very beginning. Although i admire witty remarks here and there. No i would never cheat on a girl. Just not in me. Ive been betrayed so many times in life, i would never want to hurt someone like that.
Author Kaiten Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 Am4REAL i was merely asking what people suggested i do. Thats really about all i was asking. I didnt intend for it to be technically misconstrued as a dating forum type post
Author Kaiten Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 I found your other thread. Was that the crux of your situation? You received a lot of good replies there..... Which thread? Either way the answer is yes it was the crux.
PogoStick Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Also my ex did agree to a date. We just havent gone yet. Since there hasnt been any communication, its 100% over right? Hey analogy boy: I'm going to send you a million dollars. You really are a millionaire now, but I just haven't sent it to you yet.
WhoreyBull Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I am 21 she is 17. An older boy tells a teen girl a different teen girl is "perfect" in some ways and she reacts negatively!?!?! I'm with you man. It doesn't matter how many years of research one puts in, no could have seen that one coming. I'm not sure what you are going on about that brain mumbo jumbo, but it's helping you look the fool You are right, insecurity did play a factor BUT immaturity is what killed your relationship. You were immature and made your ex feel bad for a joke, she was immature and ended a relationship over perfect hair. You now want to start up with perfect hair girl who you know nothing about other than she is a hot piece of ass. You are acting like you've thought about things a lot more (or at least a lot more clearly) than you actually have. You don't know what you want out of yourself or a girlfriend at this point, don't approach relationships with a false sense of commitment. I don't understand why young people feel the need to have a steady boyfriend or girlfriend when they should be exploring their options. 2
anna121 Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Oh WTH. I say go ahead and approach the Breck girl. (You can google that).
TaraMaiden Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Which thread? Either way the answer is yes it was the crux. This other one you posted today.....
Author Kaiten Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 You are acting like you've thought about things a lot more (or at least a lot more clearly) than you actually have. You don't know what you want out of yourself or a girlfriend at this point, don't approach relationships with a false sense of commitment. Those are some bold statements. Im not perfect, or close to it. It never even occurred to me to do most of my relationship research until after it was over. So i admit that wasnt bright. But you cant tell me that i dont know what i want out of myself of a girlfriend. If you could see how i have grown just in the month and a half since the break up, I promise you would talk completely different. Im no BS, dude .
Author Kaiten Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 I dont know if you missed it WhoreyBull, so i will say it plain. I admit not knowing everything i need to know. the purpose of this thread is to ask "What should i do? I am very considerate of my ex, and am aware that i dont have the whole picture. I dont want to hurt this girl any worse than i already have. But neither do i want to hang on to false hope." I appreciate all the wisdom and practical advice hidden in all the douchebaggery. I was trying to show you all that if possible, i would like to reconcile, but i dont want to kid myself. I have a lot of growing up to do. And i will be saying that when i am 60. You dont know who i am or what ive been through that has shaped the man behind this keyboard. But i can say with confidence that if you did you wouldve said some different things.
LoveB86 Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Look, You are young and you should just honestly find a sport or hobby to do and leave relationships alone right now. It will have your mind confused and as a young man like yourself, you still have a lot of growing up to do. Leave the ex alone. Make friends right now because you seem all over the place and LOVE is definitely not like that. Good luck to you
Amelie1980 Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Oh, and it's "My gf and I...." And it's "EX gf and I......" Who is going to the cinema tonight. Alone: I am. Therefore, with someone, John and I. Who do these books belong to? Alone: They belong to me. Therefore with someone, They belong to John and ME. I figure if you're still very young your learning capacity will be good. It will also impress your English teacher to the roof! Take care not to start a sentence with a conjunction.
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