sad123 Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 I wanted to start off by thanking everyone for the replies I will be getting on my thread. I was in a long-distance relationship for about 6 months. The guy I was seeing just got out of a 5 year relationship (less than half a year ago)where his ex cheated on him and married another man. My ex actually had dated a few girls before me but were all about six months long. Although we were LD my ex and I communicated through phone and talked for 2-8 hours each day. We also met up about once a month but would spend days together for long periods of time. Everything seemed fine at first but as time went on I felt that he would be distant and wierd. when i would ask him what's going on he would tell me that he was tired. But at the same time he would drive hours to see me (in the snow and rain). I wasn't having sex nor did I want to kiss him because I have very high morals and values and didn't want to do anything until I was certain. he respected that. We continued to see each other for six months. He would always say I was "too good to be true" and told his cousins that I was different. well, I fell inlove with him but could never tell him. Well, the last time I met up with him he was acting wierd and distant. However, I asked him where I stood in his life and if he was ready to commit to me. He said "oh, we're still getting to know each other...we'll see what happens". I was hurt because I didn't want to waste time with a guy that has no long term plans with me. That night he didn't call knowing that I was in another country alone. I was hurt and it seemed like he didn't care. Well, the next day he called and I was confused. So, I broke up with him. Since, he kept me in the dark about things, i was scared that he maybe cheating on me. By the way, he still kept in touch with his ex once in a while (and she would tell him that she made a mistake breaking up with him). At the end of the day he told me that he was not over his ex and that he would think about her and that his mind was in another place. I was furious! And asked him why he had pertended to like me. Well, I waited for him for six months since he told me to give him more time. He also said that I was the "one on top" and that i was the nicest girl that he had ever been with. At the end of six months, I decided to cut off contact and not talk to him anymore. I asked him if he wanted to work things out with me and he responded with "I don't know" and "I don't know what I want" . I told him that just be honest and tell me either yes or no..i don't want to hear I dont know....but that's what he said...I don't know. He would always talk to me...but never said that he wanted to break-up with me..it was wierd. Well, a month ago he sent me an email saying he will always pray for my happiness and and I that deserve the best. He said that he would never ever be mad at me. I sent him an email back because he kept me in the dark of things...and completely shut me out. He seemed like he was very insincere about things. I cared about him soo much and sacrificed my own feelings to he would get over his issues. I miss him and love him. He doesn't want to be friends with me because with all his other ex's there was something "there" with me. But he still talks to them. But he was so rude..i don't know what he wants. My QUESTION is...will I ever hear from him? or is he gone for good?
cinnamonstix49 Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 Originally posted by sad123 I wanted to start off by thanking everyone for the replies I will be getting on my thread. heh
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