McGriff Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 ...are two of the hardest things to deal with in this hell I'm in. Weekends were our time and omg did we make the most of them. So having this emptiness is just draining. So miserable. And other couples. Does anybody else get down when you see other couples being affectionate and enjoying each other? I hate to say it, but my brother and his wife just make me sick sometimes (I love my brother and his wife), but in my current state of misery, I can only take so much of them. Lol
blindhope Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Couldn't agree more. Weekends are long and lonely. It's almost unnatural to not look forward to the weekends. But now I know I'm alone and she's off with her new boy toy(literally, he's a kid so he has no high school that day) Then the couples. They are a dagger to the gut. Everyone of my close friends is either married or engaged. 5 Weddings this summer. I come from a big family and their all married with kids and more on the way. Every where I look happy couples. So I feel your pain and hanging around couples, my best friends throws a knot in my stomach. 1
itto ogami Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Weekends can be tough. I think, gee, just five weeks ago on Friday she was sitting next to me in a bar, kissing and laughing and I felt so good, complete... Then you're at a bar alone or with friends looking at all the other happy couples... But be happy for THEM as well. You had moments that some people never get their whole life. And the cycle turns and you'll be primping for a Friday out with somebody who you can't believe is in your life after the pain you went through before... Onward! 1
Am4Real Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 There is a thread on this subject running in the COPING forum if care to add on. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/382694-does-anyone-dread-weekends-stage
LoveB86 Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I am terrified of today because its Saturday and we used to always hang out in the afternoon and usually have a BBQ with his family. I hate this as it's my first weekend without him. I haven't so much been bothered by the seeing other couples yet as I have not gone to enough places to see that. But the loneliness and the feeling of what to do now replays over and over and over?
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