Katrina26 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 So I am recently dating this guy, and he already talk to my mom to get permission to date me. She said she kinda doesn't agree cause we don't know eachother (wrong we know eachother) he asked her for permission if he could take me out to eat or movies and she denied it. So he has being visiting home just to see me. Today he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies and I left the answer open cause I didn't want to tell him no. I am now afraid of even asking her to let us go out. Note he is 22 already with a bachelors and a good job and I'm 21 with an associates and a bachelors and also a good job.
todreaminblue Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 So I am recently dating this guy, and he already talk to my mom to get permission to date me. She said she kinda doesn't agree cause we don't know eachother (wrong we know eachother) he asked her for permission if he could take me out to eat or movies and she denied it. So he has being visiting home just to see me. Today he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies and I left the answer open cause I didn't want to tell him no. I am now afraid of even asking her to let us go out. Note he is 22 already with a bachelors and a good job and I'm 21 with an associates and a bachelors and also a good job. Your friend was a gentleman who asked your mums permission....you are 21 and can make your own decisions but yet, he asked for permission this guy has respect in his genes.......go out with him, let your mum know where you are going and tell her not to worry why do you feel the need to ask your mum?......deb
Author Katrina26 Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 Your friend was a gentleman who asked your mums permission....you are 21 and can make your own decisions but yet, he asked for permission this guy has respect in his genes.......go out with him, let your mum know where you are going and tell her not to worry why do you feel the need to ask your mum?......deb He is very respectful and a family man. She is a complicated individual and to overprotective. I was actually talking to my bf (she still thinks we are just friends) and he said he is willing to go through if with me but I don't want him to get tired of me because of her being the way she is. 1
Krieger Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Why not find your own place? Just saying then problem solved 1
todreaminblue Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 He is very respectful and a family man. She is a complicated individual and to overprotective. I was actually talking to my bf (she still thinks we are just friends) and he said he is willing to go through if with me but I don't want him to get tired of me because of her being the way she is. sounds like a keeper to me, dont let anyone decide for you, this is your life your love his love no one elses...tell you rmum exactly that, he was respectful to her , she needs to respect him too...he gave it, she should give it....he is worthy of respect...good luck ....congrats on finding a decent guy.........hugs....deb
Author Katrina26 Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 sounds like a keeper to me, dont let anyone decide for you, this is your life your love his love no one elses...tell you rmum exactly that, he was respectful to her , she needs to respect him too...he gave it, she should give it....he is worthy of respect...good luck ....congrats on finding a decent guy.........hugs....deb Thanks everyone on the good wishes and advises. Will try to do what you guys said
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