siankat Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 I want to break NC so baaad just to call him a stupid a******!!! Am so angry right now with work stuff (i work as a nurse and see so much shady immoral dont give a s**** attitudes and i just think, even with my ex, i wouldn't have handled it so selfishly (he was one of those looked me straight in the eye telling me he didnt want another woman when i was saying lets date, be rational etc. then i fall for him eventually and he never fell for me! Just lied. No biggie but sometimes ppl just need to get called out on their crap!! I did, to him but im angry and am feeling vengeful grrrrr bad day at work
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Not worth it. NC says more than words can. Don't set yourself back for him. Not worth it!! Post it here, rather... I want to read it 1
mike588 Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Not worth it. NC says more than words can. Don't set yourself back for him. Not worth it!! Post it here, rather... I want to read it I agree..Don't do it. I went No Contact after my b/u...it wasn't easy but was the best thing I did to heal/recover and move on.
TaraMaiden Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I want to break NC so baaad just to call him a stupid a******!!! Am so angry right now with work stuff (i work as a nurse and see so much shady immoral dont give a s**** attitudes ...No biggie but sometimes ppl just need to get called out on their crap!! I did, to him but im angry and am feeling vengeful grrrrr bad day at work This is really bad news if you're a patient..... 2
Damsel in Distress Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I hope you were strong today Siankat. I think it's often when I'm angry that I'm most tempted to break NC! I convince myself that he deserves to hear my anger and deserves to feel bad. One thing I find helpful is to think about how he would react - what he would be thinking to receive your angry call. It definitely wouldn't raise your bar in his eyes, and would probably even lower it. Also the thing is, it's not going to change anything on his end, and even though you convince yourself that you would feel better getting that anger out, hearing his voice, having contact with him, and getting his cool response is no doubt going to make you feel worse. And you would very likely regret it by the next morning. So that's my pep talk, lol. Stay strong!!!! btw, I don't know where your name came from, but my kids like this thing on the internet called Nyan cat, and your name always makes me think of that, lol. This is the kind of comment I think would be best for a PM, but I have several weeks before I can PM so I have to say it publicly 1
ThatJustHappened Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I had a very bad day too. I'm totally willing to share my bottle of Makers Mark if you wanna come over!! AND NOW I CAN'T GET THIS #@($)*@$)(& PICKLE JAR OPEN AND I WANT TO EFFING THROW IT AGAINST THE WALL! I swear, these pickles are going to be SORRY when I get this jar open!!! 3
lavenderlove Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 I went to pick up some staff from my ex, and we met, and he was very COOL about it all and something just clicked inside, and I just became so furious I have never felt in my whole life. I kept it inside until I got home, and then started screaming into my pillow, and then swearing and throwing the pillow around the room until it smashed into my collection of favourite porcelain figurines.
ThatJustHappened Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Yeahhhh, show them pickles who's boss!!! I didn't get the pickle jar open..but I did get the whiskey bottle open!!!
itto ogami Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 And trust me and others, there is NOTHING you can say that will put the exclamation point on your feelings. Turning the other cheek is almost like physics - the other person has nothing to hit against. Therefore, confusion in the mind and spinning unanswered thoughts. NO CONTACT is your single greatest comeback. 2
Author siankat Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 (edited) Mtnbiker3000, thatjusthappened, damaged23,damselindistress thanks for being upbeat and making me chuckle Tara Maiden do you work in politics , maybe PR? Cutting and chopping my post to read differently is just annoying. And sorry guys i think the humour was lost on some of you cos i was pissed at having witnessed (and reported) some unneccessary bad practice at work, was angry at that and then my ex popped in my head after my shift and instead of the usual measured, 'he had his good and bad points' i had totally lost any softness towards him and just thought 'You are an *******!!' Emm, not gonna break NC cos, i wouldn't even waste the free minutes, is where im at Edited April 6, 2013 by siankat
TaraMaiden Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Tara Maiden do you work in politics , maybe PR? Cutting and chopping my post to read differently is just annoying. No. Counselling and Law-by-proxy. (My H. is a solicitor and TaraMERE - someone different entirely, but the poor girl always gets mistaken for me - is a Scottish Solicitor....) Didn't cut and chop - just abbreviated. My comment was tongue-in-cheek humour. Hence the smiling emoticon... It got liked by some, because they 'got it'.... And sorry guys i think the humour was lost on some of you You're right - it was.... cos i was pissed at having witnessed (and reported) some unneccessary bad practice at work, was angry at that and then my ex popped in my head after my shift and instead of the usual measured, 'he had his good and bad points' i had totally lost any softness towards him and just thought 'You are an *******!!' We were supposed to get all that, were we? . ....not gonna break NC cos, i wouldn't even waste the free minutes, is where im at Cool!! Good for you!! :cool:
Author siankat Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 Good luck with all the by proxy work you are doing
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