He called himself an idiot then....goes MIA

[notaneatfreak]

So this guy I was dating ended it with me quickly. He said he never wanted to talk to me again and that we weren't a good match. I said fine. We had met twice and spoke often. Two months later I get a text from him saying that he's an idiot and he wants me back. I gave him a "list" of requirements that I needed in order to trust him again and him win me back. He didn't buy it. He failed my test. He still wants to pursue a relationship or whatever with me. He doesn't show me that he does and I am not sure if its too early or if he's just thinking of one thing. What do I do? Now he's MIA again after telling me he was an idiot and I am like, okay so what am I I guess I am stupid?

[pyramid]

Cut off all communication - ignore him. Why would you give him a "test" that he fails and then still consider a relationship? Stand up for yourself - you are too good for him.

[spice4life]

So this guy I was dating ended it with me quickly. He said he never wanted to talk to me again and that we weren't a good match. I said fine. We had met twice and spoke often. Two months later I get a text from him saying that he's an idiot and he wants me back. I gave him a "list" of requirements that I needed in order to trust him again and him win me back. He didn't buy it. He failed my test. He still wants to pursue a relationship or whatever with me. He doesn't show me that he does and I am not sure if its too early or if he's just thinking of one thing. What do I do? Now he's MIA again after telling me he was an idiot and I am like, okay so what am I I guess I am stupid?

 

Run for the freakin hills now while you can. He obviously has issues and being in a committed relationship with somene else may be one of them. Cut it off and find someone who is worthy of your attention...this guy is not.

[soccerrprp]

Sounds like he found someone he thought was better and when it didn't work out, came back to you. Any way, he sounds unstable.