Guys, why do you put up with rudeness or aggressiveness from women?

[Emilia]

You could be onto something.

 

Sometimes he has this dazed look or deep in thought (don't ask me how I know).

 

You've got me thinking now.

 

If you start from the standard view point of 'men have a dirty mind' you are more than likely to be right

 

Sorry boys (though most of them are not ashamed of this).

[ltjg45]

If you start from the standard view point of 'men have a dirty mind' you are more than likely to be right

 

Sorry boys (though most of them are not ashamed of this).

 

I do have a dirty mind, sure, but to act on this on a women without at least letting her know of it beforehand?

 

That isn't me.....unless she tells me of it ahead of time. Now that is different.

[Emilia]

I do have a dirty mind, sure, but to act on this on a women without at least letting her know of it beforehand?

 

 

How do you mean 'act on this'?

[sayitasitis]

I do have a dirty mind, sure, but to act on this on a women without at least letting her know of it beforehand?

 

That isn't me.....unless she tells me of it ahead of time. Now that is different.

 

You mean you would let a woman know before you fantasize about taming her sexually?

 

What do you want the woman to tell you "ahead of time?"

[ltjg45]

How do you mean 'act on this'?

 

Actually doing it.

 

Like if I were in bed with her having sex and then I just start getting rougher on her without warning her ahead of time to make sure she is OK with it.

 

You mean you would let a woman know before you fantasize about taming her sexually?

 

What do you want the woman to tell you "ahead of time?"

 

Well, no. Any woman that I want to be with, it is painfully obvious she is attractive enough that I want to have sex with her.

 

And I'm sure I don't need permission to fantasize about her. She won't even know.

 

What I mean is, before I try to act out on one of my fantasies that I will ask to make sure she is willing to go through with it. Not all women want rough sex but, at that same point, not all women want passive, boring sex either.

 

I just want to make sure we are both on the same page.

 

As to your second question, if she tells me ahead of time that she wants rough sex, I take that as a A-OK to do just that the next time we do have sex. I don't have to worry about asking such a question during the lovemaking.

 

I hope that makes sense.