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I just made my ex girlfriend mad do i still have a chance or should i just move on?


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i broke up with my ex girlfriend 5 months ago. she cheated. i didn't contact her until 3 weeks later, while in no contact she sent me a text saying that she did not want to put pressure, she was willing to wait as long as i need because she still loved me she wanted to get back together which i ignored because i wasn't interested. a month ago. she invited me to meet for coffee and talk.

 

she wanted to talk about our relationship. she said she wanted to be friends, moments later she said that honestly she had mixed feelings and did not know what to feel, she wanted to find a solution she could not stop thinking she confessed , that she loves me and always will. she told me that we should probably take some time apart for few months to wait and see about our feelings. i told her to stop thinking about me too much and to just take it slow to see how it goes, if we are meant to be together we will if not then it's destiny she agreed.

 

when she heard about me reconnecting with another ex, her emotion changed while she tried to hide it, she told me why i did not tell her and started to as questions, she even said that if am with someone else i would see. later on she told me that she was not jealous. she invited me to a 3d date which i slept off but apologized when she got angry and told me she thinks i'm playing with her. so she invited me to another one but i haven't had time to meet her since then. when she got her new job offer she called me immediately i'm the 1st person she told. we are still often in contact. when she hears about her friends or people looking for accommodation she always give them my number because am a part time estate agent. 2 days ago i sent her an email regarding what she told me a month earlier, saying that i agree on her decision to take some time apart, i was going to take some space. she did not reply

 

. today after taking a wrong advice from a friend i sent her a text saying;" lets begin again would you like to meet up next week?". she got angry and replied;" If im honest with u im tired of ur stupidities!! Thats why i didnt even answer u d last message.. Make whatever u want and think whatever u want to think.. I don't gonna follow u anymore... U r like a child...

Till d moment i don't gonna be able to meet i have d trial near, on 15th, and ill spend my days off studing.. Speak after 17th..". is she just annoyed at the moment and should i wait until after the 17th like she said or just forget about her and move on?

 

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i was told to send her a card hoping her well on her studies... because she could be testing me due to her feeling insecure, that she is angry i broke up with her and she is thinking i show no interest because i missed a date so she is being defensive. would it be a good idea to send a card? and could that be correct her being defensive?

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would it be a good idea to send a card? and could that be correct her being defensive?

 

No and who cares? It's over. You can be less and less miserable each day for a few months, or you can play this game for the next year or so with cycles of complete miserableness, mild happiness and constant worry. You're call.

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She...cheated on you.

 

Why would you even consider waiting for her to make up her mind regarding her feelings ? She betrayed you and now YOU are asking us whether you still have a chance with her ?

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She...cheated on you.

 

Why would you even consider waiting for her to make up her mind regarding her feelings ? She betrayed you and now YOU are asking us whether you still have a chance with her ?

 

lol this.

 

doormat city.

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