deathdroid19 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 I am a boy who was in love with a boy. I had a great relationship with him. We did everything together and we loved each other very much. One night a couple nights ago, I decided to go through his phone to get a picture of him that was inappropriate. It was a naked picture of him. I sent it to myself and once I did I regretted it. I came forward in the morning and told him myself. He said that I had broken his trust, and that I hurt him. I know what I did and I apologized. A couple days later he broke up with me saying he didn't want to hold my hand or didn't want to kiss me. It hurt him to much, but he wants to be friends, best friends because we work that way. Now we are in a good position in that regard, but I am just sad that he would back away like that. He said that he wants me to make him love me again, and I'm going to try so hard, but I have no idea what to do at this point. Any tips?
will1988 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Well for one, I know you are young.....Two, if this guy broke up with you just for going through his phone, one time, he is not worth fighting for, because he wanted out to begin with. Go have fun with other guys and settel down when you are older. 1
Sexy Teddy Bear Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 I agree with Will. That's a pretty extreme response to what you did. There's really no point in trying to fight for something like that.
Author deathdroid19 Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 Well for one, I know you are young.....Two, if this guy broke up with you just for going through his phone, one time, he is not worth fighting for, because he wanted out to begin with. Go have fun with other guys and settel down when you are older. I am younger, I'm 23, and it's a difficult situation, lets see if I can clarify. When he was younger, he was raped by another male. So having sex was a little difficult for him because he would have flashbacks, but we started getting over it. So he started to trust me. Unfortunantly, the trust I had built up was broken by me stealing a picture from his phone. I had to go WAY back into is ex-gfs texts, so that picture wasn't meant for me. I know he has had trust issues before, thats probably why it hurt him so back. I'm going to give it a couple to a few weeks, and then if nothing has progressed I'm going to stop trying probably because I'll be ragged by then. I want this so I'm going to try for it. I just don't know what I should do.
Author deathdroid19 Posted April 7, 2013 Author Posted April 7, 2013 Well we are together again. he did admit that he was immature with relationships so it was so hard for him to accept the fact that I had done wrong. He also said that he wants me to love him again and accept his apology for trying to run away. Thanks ya'll
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