Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Everybody lies (Not me ) No, seriously everybody lies, but there are ordinary lies and there are big liessssss, so my question is: What is the biggest lie a girl\guy lied to you when you were dating each other ? And I know how you people like to talk about other people being big liars and stuff , but let's face it everybody lies, so it's very possible that you have lied as well My next question is: What is the biggest lie you told a girl\guy you dated\are dating?
Locust Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Everybody lies (Not me ) No, seriously everybody lies, but there are ordinary lies and there are big liessssss, so my question is: What is the biggest lie a girl\guy lied to you when you were dating each other ? And I know how you people like to talk about other people being big liars and stuff , but let's face it everybody lies, so it's very possible that you have lied as well My next question is: What is the biggest lie you told a girl\guy you dated\are dating? I known someone who lied to a woman saying he was fit, slim and trim, but when they were about to rock the bedroom she fled out quickly. He was wearing a girdle to make himself look slim. When she found that she was like oh no, poof. 3
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 I known someone who lied to a woman saying he was fit, slim and trim, but when they were about to rock the bedroom she fled out quickly. He was wearing a girdle to make himself look slim. When she found that she was like oh no, poof. Oh my God, I never imagines men using girdles
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 Biggest lie I've been told: "He's just a friend" As to the second part, I'm not going there as I already have a reputation as an ******* on here and I don't want to cement it. I don't buy it! You don't tell your lies not because you care about what others think of you, but I guess your lies are really good you don't want them to be popular and thus making it harder for you to use them anymore
KungFuJoe Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Biggest lie ever told to me by a gf...was that she was a virgin when we were first together. I was a virgin and she thought that I would hold it against her if she wasn't as well, even though she was 4 years older than me. I never really believed her and I would "joke" about it all the time...but she stuck to her guns. Until one day, 2 years later, she just hit me with it...and said she wasn't a virgin. She had a TON of photos of some guy that she had always said was her good friend from the country she was from...but it turns out it was her bf that she lost her virginity to. It wasn't so much that she wasn't a virgin that made me upset...it was that she could so casually lie to me about something for two years like that. Turns out, she wasn't the most morally sound person. She often lied to cover her tracks and things ended VERY badly for us. 2
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 Biggest lie ever told to me by a gf...was that she was a virgin when we were first together. I was a virgin and she thought that I would hold it against her if she wasn't as well, even though she was 4 years older than me. I never really believed her and I would "joke" about it all the time...but she stuck to her guns. Until one day, 2 years later, she just hit me with it...and said she wasn't a virgin. She had a TON of photos of some guy that she had always said was her good friend from the country she was from...but it turns out it was her bf that she lost her virginity to. It wasn't so much that she wasn't a virgin that made me upset...it was that she could so casually lie to me about something for two years like that. Turns out, she wasn't the most morally sound person. She often lied to cover her tracks and things ended VERY badly for us. Yeah, that's sad......Liars make you suspect you are not good enough I mean you start thinking maybe I'm so nice, so naive so so so so, but the truth is they are the ones who are sick and have issues!
Djz05 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 If i told you i dont lie and you believed me, then im a pretty good liar. But yeah i lie all the time, believe me 1
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 If i told you i dont lie and you believed me, then im a pretty good liar. But yeah i lie all the time, believe me I believe everyone, but deep down inside they are all liars waiting to be found Twisted way of thinking, but it's working
KungFuJoe Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 The biggest lie told to me by a gf (well, I guess she technically didn't lie about it since I never thought to ask) was about her having a child. We dated for about 3 months and things were starting to get serious. When I met her family, her brother told me. She had no pictures of him on her FB or anything. The kid was 4 years old and she used to yell and him and call him stupid while we were on the phone. Complete psycho. I still have nightmares about that one... Wow...I'd call that awful, but that would be too nice a word. I mean...I can SORT of see lying about being a virgin...how was I ever gonna find out right? But how do you lie about a KID??? 2
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 The biggest lie told to me by a gf (well, I guess she technically didn't lie about it since I never thought to ask) was about her having a child. We dated for about 3 months and things were starting to get serious. When I met her family, her brother told me. She had no pictures of him on her FB or anything. The kid was 4 years old and she used to yell and him and call him stupid while we were on the phone. Complete psycho. I still have nightmares about that one... How sick! I hate such mothers! Maybe she hates the father so much and every time she sees her child, it reminds her of him, still sick...Some people should give up their children for adoption or sell them better than raising them in misery and hate 1
KungFuJoe Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 I believe everyone, but deep down inside they are all liars waiting to be found Twisted way of thinking, but it's working I wouldn't say that. I've told a fib or two when I was younger, but that experience with my first gf made me SO turned off by liars. I can honestly say that I never lie. I might "soften" things up a bit...but never flat out lie or give the wrong impression of what I'm saying. I HATE liars with a passion and would never want to be seen as one. My wife is the same way. She is probably the most honest person I've ever met. 1
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 (edited) I wouldn't say that. I've told a fib or two when I was younger, but that experience with my first gf made me SO turned off by liars. I can honestly say that I never lie. I might "soften" things up a bit...but never flat out lie or give the wrong impression of what I'm saying. I HATE liars with a passion and would never want to be seen as one. My wife is the same way. She is probably the most honest person I've ever met. I don't lie either (Big lies I mean ), and I don't tolerate lying I only pretend I believe the lies until you know, I wanna know what comes next? I had to leave my place and move to another so I had to give my kitty to someone else, a family that already had a kitty, so I figured they will treat my kitty well. I added them on Facebook so if they shared photos of my kitty I would see it. The girl started sharing photos of my cat after 3 months, I never believed it was the same kitty, but didn't say anything.. Until last week they put a stupid photo of a grown up white cat, I thought it was too good to be taken at home, but didn't comment....Until my sister found the same photo in cats' website I was so angry, I told the girl, that it wasn't necessary to do that I only cared for my kitty and wanted him to be OK and in a safe house, there was no need to put photos of other cats. I told her I guess that's how people now a days ...and blocked her on Facebook Such a shame ... I hope my kitty is alright Edited April 5, 2013 by Noproblem
Mantha03 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Well I had lost my virginity to a guy and we started dating. I came to his house one day for a New Year's Eve party (after being together for 4 months) and there was a girl there I had never seen before who had a really bad attitude but i was told she was just his cousins friend. Also my BF was acting wierd he sat next to me but didn't touch me and kept going in the other room with this girl to talk. Come to find out she was his girl friend of 3 years and I was the other girl. He also had a third girlfriend. You can imagine how it played out in me finding this out. 1
mesmerized Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 I can't think of any big lie I told someone or any big lie someone who I legitimately dated told me!!! I had people I went on a couple of dates with or hooked up with lie to me though. Biggest one being they are single while they were not. 1
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 Well I had lost my virginity to a guy and we started dating. I came to his house one day for a New Year's Eve party (after being together for 4 months) and there was a girl there I had never seen before who had a really bad attitude but i was told she was just his cousins friend. Also my BF was acting wierd he sat next to me but didn't touch me and kept going in the other room with this girl to talk. Come to find out she was his girl friend of 3 years and I was the other girl. He also had a third girlfriend. You can imagine how it played out in me finding this out. OMG, what a big liar So sad for you 1
Mantha03 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 OMG, what a big liar So sad for you It was a long time ago but learned my lesson early I guess. 1
Djz05 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Well I had lost my virginity to a guy and we started dating. I came to his house one day for a New Year's Eve party (after being together for 4 months) and there was a girl there I had never seen before who had a really bad attitude but i was told she was just his cousins friend. Also my BF was acting wierd he sat next to me but didn't touch me and kept going in the other room with this girl to talk. Come to find out she was his girl friend of 3 years and I was the other girl. He also had a third girlfriend. You can imagine how it played out in me finding this out. Holy s*** snacks
todreaminblue Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Everybody lies (Not me ) No, seriously everybody lies, but there are ordinary lies and there are big liessssss, so my question is: What is the biggest lie a girl\guy lied to you when you were dating each other ? And I know how you people like to talk about other people being big liars and stuff , but let's face it everybody lies, so it's very possible that you have lied as well My next question is: What is the biggest lie you told a girl\guy you dated\are dating? that he believed in monogamy.... that someone didnt try cracking onto me..i twas one of his friends who was talking trash about me to my ex....telling him to leave me...lie by omission was mine,didnt tell my ex the friend was a dick to the nth degree....told him later after we had moved away so the dickhead wouldnt get his head stomped on and my ex get an assault record....i think that lie was justified......wrong but justified.....deb 1
Djz05 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Hmm my biggest lie was when I was about to seal the deal during my first sexual encounter. I made it clear it was just a fwb thing and I wanted to make sure she was fine with it. Said I didnt love her. But really I did like her a lot, and the main reason I kept saying I didn't want anything serious was because I was leaving in a day. I was really upset when she had to leave and i had to finish packing my bags. You could say I lied to myself and to her. Best 12 hours of my life though. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 The biggest lie I have told someone involved my ex. The night I met him, he told me he was 30 yo (I was 32) and all girls there were younger... I got insecure and told him I was 31. I lied by one year but it was somehow MILES better than 32. After we got serious, I consciously covered up my lie. Somehow it grew into this huge thing in my mind. I clued in my family who went along with it. As my 33rd bday approached (which he thought was 32nd) I knew I had to tell him.I didn't know how to, so I decided to put my DOB on Facebook while he was at work one day. I know he is on FB like 24/7 and he will see it. By that time we were living together. He got home and sure enough told me about seeing my DOB on FB. But then............. He started laughing how he must have missed seeing it before. He didn't notice that I updated it that day. He kept saying how we both were supposed to be great at maths and we couldn't even get our ages right. He was :lmao: all evening and said how we must have been so drunk the night we met. I just quietly nodded. I couldn't believe my luck I actually hate lies and this was a big lesson. I have issues with bad memory and sometimes I would forget small facts about a specific situation and people may think that I am lying about small details. But it's never anything of real importance. 2
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 The biggest lie I have told someone involved my ex. The night I met him, he told me he was 30 yo (I was 32) and all girls there were younger... I got insecure and told him I was 31. I lied by one year but it was somehow MILES better than 32. After we got serious, I consciously covered up my lie. Somehow it grew into this huge thing in my mind. I clued in my family who went along with it. As my 33rd bday approached (which he thought was 32nd) I knew I had to tell him.I didn't know how to, so I decided to put my DOB on Facebook while he was at work one day. I know he is on FB like 24/7 and he will see it. By that time we were living together. He got home and sure enough told me about seeing my DOB on FB. But then............. He started laughing how he must have missed seeing it before. He didn't notice that I updated it that day. He kept saying how we both were supposed to be great at maths and we couldn't even get our ages right. He was :lmao: all evening and said how we must have been so drunk the night we met. I just quietly nodded. I couldn't believe my luck I actually hate lies and this was a big lesson. I have issues with bad memory and sometimes I would forget small facts about a specific situation and people may think that I am lying about small details. But it's never anything of real importance. Wow, omg that was so funny and cute at the same time :)
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 I can't think of any big lie I told someone or any big lie someone who I legitimately dated told me!!! I had people I went on a couple of dates with or hooked up with lie to me though. Biggest one being they are single while they were not. I don't get it, like why guys in a relationship tends to look at other girls and try their luck more than when they were singles
Author Noproblem Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 Hmm my biggest lie was when I was about to seal the deal during my first sexual encounter. I made it clear it was just a fwb thing and I wanted to make sure she was fine with it. Said I didnt love her. But really I did like her a lot, and the main reason I kept saying I didn't want anything serious was because I was leaving in a day. I was really upset when she had to leave and i had to finish packing my bags. You could say I lied to myself and to her. Best 12 hours of my life though. That's sad, can't you contact her now?
Djz05 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 As much as i hate for lies to be there, I accept that people lie. And not necessarily to harm you, some lies are told to protect you. The weird thing for me is, I get upset more over a sugar coated lie than an honest but painful answer. Like one girl I was seeing for over a year. I broke it off with her when i found out she was lying to me the whole time and was seeing her ex on the side. Turns out I was the "other" guy. That ended really bad, because of my reputation at school she had to change her majors and went to a different building in the campus just to get away from my influence. I told her if she had just been honest and told me she was still seeing him, I would have just quietly called it off and be less vindictive about it. Crazy thing is, she finally called it off with her ex and was trying everything to get me back. 2
Djz05 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 That's sad, can't you contact her now? We've stayed in touch through the years, but when she started seeing someone and it seemed a sure thing I stopped. The occasional fb birthday or holiday greeting notwithstanding, but otherwise I dont talk to her anymore. Last I talked to her was years ago and she was having a baby with the guy. 1
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