AwptiK Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 (edited) I miss: -The companionship. Be it having someone text me throughout the day, someone to hang out with on the weekends, or knowing someone is "mine". -The intimacy. Cuddling, kissing and sex. I don't mean sex, because it felt great. I mean the intimate-side of sex. I miss sharing those deeply personal moments with someone else. The part I miss most of those three would just be holding someone close. -The relationship-type activities. I miss cooking for, or with, my someone. I miss driving around with my hand alternating between the shifter and my other's hand. I miss dates. I miss group-date outings. I miss random surprises; visits or gifts or whatnot. -Making someone smile and be genuinely happy. Regardless of the gesture, or something I say, just putting a smile on someone special's face always left me with a great feeling. -The goodnight kisses that last a little longer, because you don't want to let go just yet. It's only happened once that I can recall, but I miss turning around as i'm walking to my car, to see that a someone is still standing there watching me. -There are specific points, personality traits and whatnot with each ex that I miss...but at the same time, everyone is different and talking about specific traits is besides the point tonight. And as I write all this, and know that I could write a lot more, I have realized tonight that my recent ex isn't the only person in the world I can have all of these things with. I definitely acknowledge that we got on better than any previous relationship, but if i'm capable of having a group of guy friends who are all different but such great people and friends, then i'm sure I can find other girls who are all different, but will make great girlfriends and fit my life well. I miss my ex, I do. I'd probably even work things out if she came around. But at the same time, there's so many girls out there who can fill those things I miss in their own ways. I can definitely say I offer a lot in a relationship and I know who I am. Not only am I seeking a girl, but a girl is out there seeking me too; One who will appreciate everything, and unlike ALL of our exes, would rather find a solution that lies outside of ending a relationship. Someone out there will hold on. Edit, for one more point: I miss the memories. We all do. That has to be the most painful aspect of any breakup. Especially the little ones that pop into your head that you didn't even remember during the friggin' relationship! I'll make new memories with a new person. Maybe i'll never forget some of my past relationship memories, but at least they'll be numb to me when new ones are being created. Goodnight LoveShack. I hope the point i've made tonight helps another, as much as it helped me to get it off my chest. Edited April 5, 2013 by AwptiK 4
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