date to a wedding!

[vannaleighbaby]

The wedding is about a month away and I was thinking weither I should bring a date or not. This is a family wedding and my uncle is the one getting married, ive done cleared it with his soon to be wife if I could bring someone and she has said yes.

Second, part to this is who I should bring as my date. I have been seeing this man for about 2 months, we have went on a few dates. We have never been intimate though, we both want to wait. Anyway, ive been reading many different sites and no one is in my exact situation, I need help. I Don't want this man to run away like a scared little dog when I ask him to be my date. But I also have no one eles I would want to take.. advice please?!?!

[Mycatsnuggles]

Either to take a friend or go alone and enjoy your family. You don't want to introduce someone to the entire family who does not have a firm connection to you. Its like skipping a step in the relationship. You would be moving forward the relationship from "testing the waters" to committed partners. Do you want everyone at the wedding telling him you two will be next?

 

Will you be uncomfortable without a date at the wedding because everyone is paired up? If this is the case bring a male or female friend and enjoy the party. show the relatives you are happy with your life as it is currently. Bringing a new relationship to a family event adds pressure to it, you could force it to become closer to fast or end it immediately because of the family not liking him. Wait until you know how you feel about him before subjecting yourself to the families scrunity of your relationship.

[Janesays]

You shouldn't be inviting someone to a wedding if they do not know the bride/groom. This is the day they unite their families. This is not a meetup. That is in poor taste and I would be turned off by that invite should some guy I wasn't even exclusive with swung that my way.

 

Go alone. A great place to meet eligible men traditionally is a wedding.