StarryChain Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I've known her for a while but I haven't talked to her until recently and I'm really awkward and shy (but I'm starting to come out of that) unless a friend is around. She looks at me a lot and I do the same to her. I'm trying to figure out if she really wants me since she looks at me and stares for a little bit so much and I can notice it but I wanna be sure so I don't really waste my time trying to get her.I wanna talk t her but I only see her in the mornings and I have no idea what to talk about. I`m really starting to like her and I still think she likes me too since she still stares when we`re near each other.
hannah11 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 It's kind of hard to tell if someone actually likes you or not. Sometimes staring doesn't even mean anything at all, and sometimes staring will mean they are trying to grab your attention. I don't know this girl, and I don't know you so I can't really judge what her actions may be and what your over reactions may be, but just go for it. It is not a waste of time going after something that you want. If she shuts you down then you get up and keep going, rejection is better than spending your time thinking about what would have happened if you had just talked to her. Tell her a joke, comment on her hair, or tell her she looks nice today. Talk about anything! If she is talking to someone else and you hear them, jump into the conversation, if you don't know what they are talking about then ask for clarification, be like "oh yeah, I heard about that, but I wasn't really sure what it was" something like that. Honestly she is probably waiting for you to make a move and is probably just as awkward and shy as you are. She is probably going home everyday and thinking about you and how you stare at her and she has no idea if you like her or not. 1
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