guysmily25 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Well, two days ago I heard my ex would be studying abroad all next fall, and that pretty much blasts away all hope I had of rekindling with her after the summer. Is it wrong of me to think that maybe her time abroad will cure her GIGS and maybe I could reach out to her next spring? I know this is the wrong mentality, I should just be focusing on moving on
richard9 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Well, two days ago I heard my ex would be studying abroad all next fall, and that pretty much blasts away all hope I had of rekindling with her after the summer. Is it wrong of me to think that maybe her time abroad will cure her GIGS and maybe I could reach out to her next spring? I know this is the wrong mentality, I should just be focusing on moving on I would say if she is going to study abroad she is moving on with her life. if she has relationships over there, that is she is with other guys, are you really prepared to wait and take her back? You need to try move on imo you are worth more than waiting for someone who has no interest in you anymore. Imagine if you wait and she.has met someone, or has no interest. It would be a waste of time, time which you could be using to get over her and move on. Imagine her reaction when she gets home, does she see you alone pining for her weak and emotionak, or does she see a strong individual happy go lucky dating and living life. I know what I would find more attractive.
Author guysmily25 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Thanks Richard, you're right! She was just my first love and we lived together and stuff..but the thought of her over there scares me. A smart, beautiful girl overseas could be with anyone she wants :'( Just gotta power through I guess.
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