Can't seem to get past my shyness any to help me suggestions!

[veryshy3079]

First time posting here and all and i'm wondering if you guys can help. Well there's this girl i think is cute at my High School and i want to get to now here a little bit and then maybe ask her out but the problem is that i can't seem to get over my shyness. I seem to freeze up and not move ever time i try and go talk to her. The one time i did get to the point of talking to her i couldn't seem to hold a conversation and i was like really nervous and got all red in the face and stuff. So i'm wondering if you guys will be able to give me some advice that could help me over come this frustrating problem of mine.

[Moose]

You're just going to have to realize that we are all the same. There isn't one person above the rest. Sure, we all have our titles and respect comes from that title. BUT, we all put our pants on one leg at a time. We all have to eat, drink and sleep.

 

You need to approach this girl not as one below her, but equal to her. You've put her on this pedestal, step up on that pedestal with her. You don't know that maybe she likes you just as much!! Believe in yourself that you are worthy to be with her. Hey, she could have worse.

 

I never knew that someone like my wife could like someone like me. But until I made the move to be with her, I would've never of found out.

 

Take the chance man!!!

[re3rocks]

try this this helps

 

 

1. face the thing ur shy of

2. do sumthin more outgoin, like make eye contact

3. remember, mistakes are to make u learn, so learn from em instead of hatin urself

4. repeat until u reach ur lvl of outgoingness that u want to achieve