Desiree87 Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 how do i let him down easy??? i moved in with a guy and we ended up spliting up and i moved back in with my mom. well i started dating this guy who i have known for going on 5 years. he was my rebound relationship. things were going alright. but now they're not going at all. he is so shy he can barely kiss me without fumbling. i am a really out-going person... i love going out places... being taken on a date here and there.... being shown that i am actually cared for.... well none of this stuff happens with him. we sit at his house and hang out with his friends. it has been a month and we barely even kiss.... i am not holding it against him that he is shy... i just need someone a little more out-going. well i found that person... this other guy is just as out-going as me... he loves going out and doing stuff... i really like this new guy... but my boyfiend is so nice and i don't want to break his heart... but then again i don't want to miss out on something that could be love! what should i do.... or how can i let him down easy?
Honesty Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 Just be honest with him. He will apreciate that you are being straight with him and not dragging him along making him more attached to you. He will most likely be hurt, but the longer you wait the worst it will be on him!
Mr Spock Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 I think that you should definetly break up your boyfriend before pursuing this other one any further. Simply state "I want to start seeing other people". Do it now.
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