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RachR Established Member

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I liked reading this thread. :laugh:

 

Can I tell something I've done that is creepy? This was when I was around 19. My short-term boyfriend of just a couple of months had broken up with me, and I bought a single rose to leave on the windshield of his car at his house. I parked my car kind of far from his house, at night, when it was pouring rain, and walked up to his home like a damn creep I tell ya. I got into the driveway and put it in the wipers. But then I removed it and ran off to my car, never to return.

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chex Established Member

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Thats actually a huge turn on...

 

I would love it being done to me the thought "i got her

So fired up like a little animal she dug her teeth in me and

Took a bite "

 

My first thought would be this chick is crazy

But "crazy about me" so id be into it

 

My god, this reminds me of one of my friends, who should creep me out.

 

She's sort of a sadist, she's done stuff like bind me with duct tape and just watched me get out, writhing and wondering if my parents would notice the red marks. She is really into sharks(for whatever reason) and she does a whole lot of biting. Like we'll be cuddling on her couch and suddenly my arm is consumed in pain. She only once drew blood, and it was honestly really hot.

 

The other sexy thing is trying to hide it from my parents and wondering what would happen if they just found deep bite marks on my arm/body or duct tape marks.

 

God high school is wonderful.

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SmileFace Established Member

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My god, this reminds me of one of my friends, who should creep me out.

 

She's sort of a sadist, she's done stuff like bind me with duct tape and just watched me get out, writhing and wondering if my parents would notice the red marks. She is really into sharks(for whatever reason) and she does a whole lot of biting. Like we'll be cuddling on her couch and suddenly my arm is consumed in pain. She only once drew blood, and it was honestly really hot.

 

The other sexy thing is trying to hide it from my parents and wondering what would happen if they just found deep bite marks on my arm/body or duct tape marks.

 

God high school is wonderful.

 

Dear Bob....wth is this chick doing today?

 

 

I am off and on about the biting but I am not sure if I am ok with the drawing blood.

 

However it is usually on my neck so drawing blood will be bad but my ex use to leave marks that will last for months. Like legit teeth marks. However I will never do the same to someoe else. Weird

truth_seeker Established Member

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In my experience, when girls play games and take it too far. It goes from annoying to weird and uncomfortable.

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Esoteric Elf Established Member

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She saw me. I thought my cloak of invisibility was infallible.

Sivok Established Member

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Yes.

 

Back in college I had a university job in IT. This girl came in to get her computer looked at and we exchanged brief witty banter.

 

Later, she found and friended me on facebook. Without a single exchange of communication since our initial meet, she messages me at 2:00 am on a Sunday saying she's sitting outside of my work office and imagining me there. Here is part of that exchange:

 

http://i.imgur.com/J8qfnGB.jpg?1

 

She then one day walked by my office, saw me working, waltzed in like it was no big deal and started hitting on me. I gave her this shocked look and she replied to me with a "wow the way you're looking at me looks like you want to rape me".

 

The second she said that, my boss reclined in his chair and peaked past the corner of his cube giving me a 'wtf is going on look'. I shook my head, and she picked up on it saying "your boss is staring at you isn't he?".

 

I responded with a "yeah... Look I gotta get back to work." She replied with a "fine then. Remember to call me - i want you to take me dancing".

 

All of that because of an initial 2 minute interaction. Creeped the hell out of me.

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normal person Established Member

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Ooh, I've got another one.

 

This girl I was talking to came off a little too interested which I recognized as a potential red flag, but I liked her so I didn't think much of it.

I write and produce a lot of music and she bought my album. Anyways, not too long afterwards I was at her apartment and as I was scrolling through her iTunes, I saw that the play count showed that she had listened to some of my songs hundreds of times in just a few weeks. I took a step back after that.

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dasein Established Member

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My mom said you sound just like the real singer." WTF!!! Your mom is there with you??? I mean the song was 2.5 minutes and she replied in 3 minutes... She replied "It's too soon"...." She asked me to call her the next day but I'm done...

 

Catfish, older woman or maybe even a guy. Wouldve been an excuse for not talking the next day, then wanting to text more, unless they lined up a Cyrano to talk to you.

 

@thread The term "creepy" needs to go because of its overuse as "men I'm not attracted to." It's offensive and wrong. Women who overuse it should stop doing it.

 

That said, two women have exhibited scary behavior with me, both borderlines. When those go "infantile" it's extremely disturbing, like scary movie disturbing, and I'm not easily disturbed.

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When my ex told me he wanted to break up with me on a whim one day and drove off, refusing to speak with me, I got in my car and followed him for miles and calling his phone incessantly. He was fully aware that I was following him and would cut corners, hoping to lose me. After about 10 minutes, I gave up. I think that qualifies as creepy.

 

Same idiot, years later, still together. I left him (this time it was done for good), and literally days before he had moved out (or was in the process of moving out) of the place where we had lived together. He still had the key. I was staying in a hotel until he was fully gone, but he begged me to come to the house at "sunset" and promised he wouldn't be there. I was creeped out already and said no, but he was persistent and told me he had made me something and had some gifts for me. (Mind you, this is about a month post-breakup). I was worried that I might be walking into an O.J. situation, so I told my girlfriend to come check on me at a certain time.

 

Walked in the house, and he had cleared the entire floor with tea candles in a heart shape, and a row of tea candles leading to the kitchen. The whole living area was lit up with candles, with red roses TAPED FROM THE CEILING. Each rose had a note attached to it, an "IOU" note. On the back of each "IOU" was something he wanted to give me, like "IOU...one diamond ring"; "IOU... a white picket fence". The candles on the floor led to where he had placed "my gift". He had whittled a wood carving for me and carved our names into it. He left me a letter which instructed me to pour myself a glass of wine, and the wine bore my name. I was almost afraid to drink it. You get the idea.

 

Several months later, (among all the other creepy things he did), he threw a cinderblock through my car rear window because I wanted nothing to do with him and he couldn't stand being a jilted lover. Creeper of the year.

 

I'm pretty sure this is why I'm avoiding getting into a new relationship.

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gaius Established Member

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When she's both interested and completely ignorant of social cues I get a little creeped out.

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When my ex told me he wanted to break up with me on a whim one day and drove off, refusing to speak with me, I got in my car and followed him for miles and calling his phone incessantly. He was fully aware that I was following him and would cut corners, hoping to lose me. After about 10 minutes, I gave up. I think that qualifies as creepy.

 

Same idiot, years later, still together. I left him (this time it was done for good), and literally days before he had moved out (or was in the process of moving out) of the place where we had lived together. He still had the key. I was staying in a hotel until he was fully gone, but he begged me to come to the house at "sunset" and promised he wouldn't be there. I was creeped out already and said no, but he was persistent and told me he had made me something and had some gifts for me. (Mind you, this is about a month post-breakup). I was worried that I might be walking into an O.J. situation, so I told my girlfriend to come check on me at a certain time.

 

Walked in the house, and he had cleared the entire floor with tea candles in a heart shape, and a row of tea candles leading to the kitchen. The whole living area was lit up with candles, with red roses TAPED FROM THE CEILING. Each rose had a note attached to it, an "IOU" note. On the back of each "IOU" was something he wanted to give me, like "IOU...one diamond ring"; "IOU... a white picket fence". The candles on the floor led to where he had placed "my gift". He had whittled a wood carving for me and carved our names into it. He left me a letter which instructed me to pour myself a glass of wine, and the wine bore my name. I was almost afraid to drink it. You get the idea.

 

Several months later, (among all the other creepy things he did), he threw a cinderblock through my car rear window because I wanted nothing to do with him and he couldn't stand being a jilted lover. Creeper of the year.

 

I'm pretty sure this is why I'm avoiding getting into a new relationship.

 

Wow, that is beyond creepy. Not saying that red roses and trying to win a girl back with romance is, but throwing a cinderblock through your car window? WTF. Glad you didn't get hurt. :eek:

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Knew her from online (local.) Chatted a few dozen times. She sent me a letter with her pic and told me she loved me. Yeah, that'll do it. I had no interest but tried to let her down easy.

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I liked reading this thread. :laugh:

 

Can I tell something I've done that is creepy? This was when I was around 19. My short-term boyfriend of just a couple of months had broken up with me, and I bought a single rose to leave on the windshield of his car at his house. I parked my car kind of far from his house, at night, when it was pouring rain, and walked up to his home like a damn creep I tell ya. I got into the driveway and put it in the wipers. But then I removed it and ran off to my car, never to return.

 

Haha, maybe I'm just a romantic but I don't think that's creepy either, especially considering your age. I think it's sweet and a bit naive. Now If you had parked your car across the street and secretly waited there all night to gauge his reaction when he got the rose in the morning, that would have been creepy.

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i think i creep a guy out....not quite sure ...i creep myself out .....i hate it when i blush or get awkward, or have big puppy eyes for a guy....i try and squint...doesnt work they go back to normal size...........hate it...i especially hope....he doesnt notice....got a gut instinct he knows..i pray i dont creep him out.....am i creepy??/...ok running before i get answered........deb.......isnt here...nikes on

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Can I tell something I've done that is creepy? This was when I was around 19. My short-term boyfriend of just a couple of months had broken up with me, and I bought a single rose to leave on the windshield of his car at his house. I parked my car kind of far from his house, at night, when it was pouring rain, and walked up to his home like a damn creep I tell ya. I got into the driveway and put it in the wipers. But then I removed it and ran off to my car, never to return.

 

God high school is wonderful.

 

Well, this reminded me of something I did when I was in high school. I was out of a story lasted more than a year. And I got obsessed with a redheaded guy I saw every day at the station, we took the same train. He was going to work and I was going to school. He even started smiling at me, and we looked at each other... but I guess he thought I was too young for him. He was probably in his late 20s. I really thought he was very sexy for some reason. He always wore a business suit and read the newspaper. But well, I guess I had a sexy body too back then. I was 18.

He was probably tempted to come to me and talk to me, but invariably, his friends would come by and talk to him. So one day, I decided to follow him going to work. Once off the train, he walked there and I followed him. I'm not sure if he noticed, but I guess so. I just tried to mind my own business while listening to music through my earphones. And finally he entered a building. Unfortunately, I was not able to tell if he entered a café or a business company in the building. I guess I should have probably done this with a friend, so he could think I was going the same direction for a reason (like skipping school to have fun downtown).

 

Anyway, time went by and school was over. One night, I go to a movie theater in the city center with my new boyfriend. We take our seats and, after a few minutes, I see him! Few rows before us, there he is! He looked at me, and I remember I was kind of excited. I told my boyfriend: look! It's him, the guy I used to see on the train............. My boyfriend was like meh, him? What could you possibly like about him? Looks average...

 

:laugh::D:cool:

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Emilia Established Member

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When I was 19 or so I dated a woman who was around 23 for a couple of months. Everything was fine except towards the end, when she seemed pissed off at me for no reason I could discern. I broke off with her, and the nastiness escalated for a week or two, then died off. Done, right? No.

 

Keep in mind this was 30 years ago. For the next 20-some-odd years, she sent my parents (who I'm not sure she ever met) a Christmas card. Three or four years ago, a friend of hers called to tell me this woman had died of cancer, and requested this friend to call me after her death. I checked the obits, because I wasn't sure this wasn't more weirdness, but it turned out to be true.

 

I picture some kind of "GT" shrine in her living room.

 

I'm sure you have this effect on all the ladies :love:

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I am sure creepiness can go both ways. And also what did she do or say to give you the creepy vibe?

 

Nope. Never.

 

I've been around plenty of creepy guys though. So I think this is generally a male trait.

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Man, these stories should go on Dateline NBC because they are just as creepy as the stories is there and after watching about the most recent stories there would give me nightmares if I were to dwell on them enough.

 

Anyway, yeah, there has been a few times where a female has creeped me out but I can't remember any particular scenario outside of the one Russian female hinting marriage to me after only knowing each other for 3 months. Hell, we wasn't even BF/GF at that time.

 

Funny thing is that 3 months later, she wanted to end all contact with me and I honored her request after she continued to be insulting to my efforts of finding work.

 

Oh well. She's attractive but her thought process is a bit crazy. I wouldn't be surprised if I get something similar to what happened to GorillaTheater.

DirtyDancing Established Member

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Wow, that is beyond creepy. Not saying that red roses and trying to win a girl back with romance is, but throwing a cinderblock through your car window? WTF. Glad you didn't get hurt. :eek:

 

I thought his idea of 'romance' to win me back was above and beyond creepy. It's amazing what men will do when their egos are crushed.

 

I wasn't IN the car!! It was parked in the carport in the middle of the night and he drove down and did it.

DirtyDancing Established Member

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It's funny that you mention something like this. Almost the same exact situation is happening to my best female friend right now.

 

She made a good point, saying that this is creepy and not romantic.....not because of the gesture itself....but because of the meaning behind the gesture. It was a very interesting comment to me. Really made me think.

 

Unfortunately, my situation developed into kinda Dateline NBC-status; so as a woman who went through the ringer with a creepy ex, I can say that I'd warn your friend to be very cautious and to not be afraid to use the law.

Celtica Established Member

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I thought his idea of 'romance' to win me back was above and beyond creepy. It's amazing what men will do when their egos are crushed.

 

I wasn't IN the car!! It was parked in the carport in the middle of the night and he drove down and did it.

 

Well I wasn't there, but I trust you that it probably was the beyond-boundaries type of romance. And all I was saying was that I'm glad he didn't do anything to hurt you after throwing a cinderblock. Still, WTF.

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Well I wasn't there, but I trust you that it probably was the beyond-boundaries type of romance. And all I was saying was that I'm glad he didn't do anything to hurt you after throwing a cinderblock. Still, WTF.

 

Thanks; he didn't do anything to hurt me, he just made my life a living hell for about a year and a half :rolleyes:

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