justwhoiam Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I think I creeped a guy out once. Years ago. He sort of couldn't believe it. So I had this friend (we're still friends) who used to play soccer like once a week with his friends... He would tell me the score after each match... Anyway, one day we're on the phone and talking about this and that and whatnot, and he mentions a past score, saying they did better than that, but mixing things somehow. So I point that out, no, you're wrong. He's like: what?! That's when I go look up my diary, letting him know I have all the scores written down and days etc. Again he was like: WTF?! You've been keeping track for months?! And he didn't know... But I know he was all flattered by that... and when he told his friends, they told him I must be in love with him........ ha 1
CryForNoOne Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 on a few occasions...... The last time it happened, is was because she started talking about us and children when we where still in single didgit dates. All the creepy moments are coming back to me. My friend's GF, who was half Sweedish half Nigerian, started talking about how beautiful OUR kids would be (I'm mixed too) - while her BF was in the car!!! I was driving a convertible with the top down on the freeway and she was in the front seat and he was in the backseat. I think he heard but I'm still not sure to this day. I really thought it was creepy at the time, but she was just starting to make her intentions clear. I ended up married to her for 4.5 years... 1
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 :lmao: this thread is very entertaining. 5
ThaWholigan Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I did have what could be construed as a creepy moment during sex more than a few months ago but it creeped me out for only a few seconds - I was bitten in the chest and she drew a little blood and smiled with my blood in her teeth. It was hot and creepy at the same time. I've come along way since last year..... 4
normal person Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I met some friends at a restaurant/bar the first night after I'd moved to LA (this was a few years ago, I think I was 23). We were sitting at a table outside when an older woman (40s) came up and casually asked if she could sit down with us. It was a little odd but we told her to go ahead, plus she had an Australian accent and it's usually interesting talking to foreigners. After about 10 minutes of pleasantries, she drops the accent and reveals she's actually Canadian. A little odd. We get up and go to the bar where there's a little more space and she comes along. She starts talking about how she has issues with her boyfriend, how they don't like each other or something. She wants to marry him so she can stay in the states, but he doesn't want to. She starts crying about the whole thing so my friend buys her a beer and we try and cheer her up. I say something about there being a lot of nice guys out there and she shouldn't settle for one that she doesn't like because it'll just cause problems down the road. She squeezes my hand and says "Well I've always been attracted to younger men." I don't really know what to say but it was kind of uncomfortable. A few minutes later as she was in the bathroom we pay our tab and left really quickly. In general, I find very aggressive, invasive, or clingy girls to be creepy. 2
Jethro Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 One girl I dated a long time ago had a rape fantasy. I know it's actually kinda common, but that really creeps me out. I can do some really perverted stuff, almost zero limits whatsoever, but I really, REALLY don't want to rape anyone.
GorillaTheater Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 When I was 19 or so I dated a woman who was around 23 for a couple of months. Everything was fine except towards the end, when she seemed pissed off at me for no reason I could discern. I broke off with her, and the nastiness escalated for a week or two, then died off. Done, right? No. Keep in mind this was 30 years ago. For the next 20-some-odd years, she sent my parents (who I'm not sure she ever met) a Christmas card. Three or four years ago, a friend of hers called to tell me this woman had died of cancer, and requested this friend to call me after her death. I checked the obits, because I wasn't sure this wasn't more weirdness, but it turned out to be true. I picture some kind of "GT" shrine in her living room. 4
Celtica Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 About 3 years ago, while I was still in a LTR, I met a really creepy woman at a mutual friend's b-day party. My GF wasn't with me. This woman came with her husband. Both of them were super friendly and initially I thought very cool. I played pool with them and remember thinking the husband seemed like a stand-up guy. She claimed she went to Stanford, and I had a fairly intellectual conversation with her. You can't smoke in bars in CA, and at some point she asked me if I wanted to go outside for a smoke. It seemed totally innocent so I did, thinking nothing of it. We continued the convo probably for another 30 minutes outside and eventually we drifted back inside. She told me her husband had left already (I don't remember why) and asked me if I could give her a ride home. Getting strange now - but OK. As we are walking to my car, she literally pulls me aside to the alley and starts making out with me. I'm totally stunned but didn't stop her initially. When she starts to pull down my pants, I had to stop her. I told her WTF - I had a GF and she was married. She apologized and backed off. I told her I would take her home. We started driving but she wouldn't give me her address and instead tried to give me turn by turn directions. It didn't take too long before I realized we were driving in circles and I wasn't really taking her home. I pulled over and said "stop f**king aorund. Where do you live?" She proceeds to jump me again, and I stop her immediately. Then she starts sobbing and telling me her husband is an abusive a-hole and she's miserable, and that she had such a great future until she met him and now she is depressed all the time and her life is horrible. I genuinely felt bad at that point but told her we can't do anything and I need to take her home. We start driving again, and in no time I realize we're going nowhere again. I pull over and again she makes one more pass at me. I'd never done this before but I had no choice but to kick her out of my car and leave her at the curb. For several months, I was very apprehensive anytime I went to a get together with our mutual friends because I was afraid that couple might show up. I eventually found out they moved away. I don't know why, but this reminds me of something from Mad Men. 2
Els Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 When I was 19 or so I dated a woman who was around 23 for a couple of months. Everything was fine except towards the end, when she seemed pissed off at me for no reason I could discern. I broke off with her, and the nastiness escalated for a week or two, then died off. Done, right? No. Keep in mind this was 30 years ago. For the next 20-some-odd years, she sent my parents (who I'm not sure she ever met) a Christmas card. Three or four years ago, a friend of hers called to tell me this woman had died of cancer, and requested this friend to call me after her death. I checked the obits, because I wasn't sure this wasn't more weirdness, but it turned out to be true. I picture some kind of "GT" shrine in her living room. That's really quite sad, GT. 6
Celtica Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 The girl I met my W through. Holy sh*t. We were in college and we hung out a couple times. She was hot, but so many things about her just didn't work for me. But she would just stop by all the time, unannounced. It was summertime, so there wasn't a lot going on near campus, so I would just end up going to the bar with her as a default borne of boredom. But we never really hooked up. Then, her coups de gras came on a night that I was hooking up with a girl I sort of hung out with. We were in my room, doing whatever drunk college kids do in rooms at night, and this girl came over to my house. Of course, I had roommates, and they just let her in, so she came up to my room, tried to come in, but the door was locked. She knew I was in there with a girl, and she started pounding on the door. When I didn't open it, she heaved herself against it until it broke the hinges off. The girl I was with was like, 'OK, I'm out', and she left. I left with her, and just left the crazy girl standing in my room. And then on another occassion, before that I think, I woke up in the middle of the night and she was in bed with me. I was like, 'What the f**k?!?'. Yeah, she was a little creepy. She also ended up being my W's Maid of Honor, so you can imagine the thoughts going through my head as I stood there on the alter. A little creepy???? You are way too nice to this girl...lol 1
GorillaTheater Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 That's really quite sad, GT. It IS sad. I just can't imagine any woman getting so hung up on me, and for such a long time. The vast majority of my ex's probably can't remember me any more than I can remember them. I can't even imagine the pathology that might have been at work. 1
Els Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 It IS sad. I just can't imagine any woman getting so hung up on me, and for such a long time. The vast majority of my ex's probably can't remember me any more than I can remember them. I can't even imagine the pathology that might have been at work. Back in my younger days, I used to think I'd be that way about my first unrequited crush. Thankfully I moved on to the next crush after a year. 3
charlietheginger Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I had a women tell me she was " really into redhead guys" At the time i had low self esteem though of my redhair And freckles as really ugly... So when she said this my immediate thought way " wtf Is wrong with you redhair is disgusting im disgusting" It creeped me out , she was really attractive so my immediate Thought was its a joke she is just fing with me... Sometimes when someone takes a interest in you And you have low self esteem your mind starts Playing all kinda of tricks on you 2
charlietheginger Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I did have what could be construed as a creepy moment during sex more than a few months ago but it creeped me out for only a few seconds - I was bitten in the chest and she drew a little blood and smiled with my blood in her teeth. It was hot and creepy at the same time. I've come along way since last year..... Thats actually a huge turn on... I would love it being done to me the thought "i got her So fired up like a little animal she dug her teeth in me and Took a bite " My first thought would be this chick is crazy But "crazy about me" so id be into it 1
pbjbear Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I regularly pick out a random guy from the grocery store, bar and gym and just stare. For minutes at a time with a slight smirk on my face. Not a Zoolander sexy look but rather a Im-infatuated-yet-enraged-at-the-same-time. 4
Celtica Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I'm pretty sure I've already told the unicorn story. That was another fun one. Wait, what is the unicorn story? Tell it!
ThaWholigan Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Thats actually a huge turn on... I would love it being done to me the thought "i got her So fired up like a little animal she dug her teeth in me and Took a bite " My first thought would be this chick is crazy But "crazy about me" so id be into it It was mad primal! I was turned on - but was a lil creepy for a moment . Goes down as the best sex I've had in the short time I've been at it. My chest burned for days after though. 1
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 I have a creepy story. When my brother was 20 or so (we are close in age), he met this girl and fell for her very quickly. She lived with her grandmother as her mum committed suicide when she was young and her dad remarried and basically abandoned her. She also claimed how her uncle sexually abused her when she was a kid. She seemed like a sweet girl and my whole family felt bad for her. My brother and me lived at home at the time so we invited her to move in with us after they dated for only 2 months. She quickly settled in, but I got a really weird vibe. She started calling my mum "mum" and me "sister" and just got too close too quickly. She also decided to drop out of school on a whim and kept getting fired from every job she got in weeks. We also all overheard screaming fights from my brother's room and it was just a bit much. Then she started staying in all the time in her pyjamas and not even combing her hair or showering.... I (being kind of of suspicious nature did a bit of background check on her) and found out that her mum is still very much alive. It turned out that details of her other stories didn't check out either. She was mentally ill and a pathological liar. My bro got really creeped out at this stage so he attempted to break up with her. It took MONTHS for us to get her to move out as she kept saying that she will kill herself and my family is a bunch of softies. Long story short, now 10 years later she is still periodically stalking our whole family. She drives by my parent's house (even though my brother doesn't live there anymore), she found out where I live and tried to talk to me number of times, she sends my brother loooong love/hate letters. She basically goes underground for months at the time and then reappears again. She also went to the police and accused my brother of raping her multiple times while they were in a relationship (wtf). Police spoke to my brother and told him that they have her on file as "crazy" and that she has reported multiple guys she dated as having raped her At this point in time, my bother has a restraining order against her. 8
CryForNoOne Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I have a creepy story. When my brother was 20 or so (we are close in age), he met this girl and fell for her very quickly. She lived with her grandmother as her mum committed suicide when she was young and her dad remarried and basically abandoned her. She also claimed how her uncle sexually abused her when she was a kid. She seemed like a sweet girl and my whole family felt bad for her. My brother and me lived at home at the time so we invited her to move in with us after they dated for only 2 months. She quickly settled in, but I got a really weird vibe. She started calling my mum "mum" and me "sister" and just got too close too quickly. She also decided to drop out of school on a whim and kept getting fired from every job she got in weeks. We also all overheard screaming fights from my brother's room and it was just a bit much. Then she started staying in all the time in her pyjamas and not even combing her hair or showering.... I (being kind of of suspicious nature did a bit of background check on her) and found out that her mum is still very much alive. It turned out that details of her other stories didn't check out either. She was mentally ill and a pathological liar. My bro got really creeped out at this stage so he attempted to break up with her. It took MONTHS for us to get her to move out as she kept saying that she will kill herself and my family is a bunch of softies. Long story short, now 10 years later she is still periodically stalking our whole family. She drives by my parent's house (even though my brother doesn't live there anymore), she found out where I live and tried to talk to me number of times, she sends my brother loooong love/hate letters. She basically goes underground for months at the time and then reappears again. She also went to the police and accused my brother of raping her multiple times while they were in a relationship (wtf). Police spoke to my brother and told him that they have her on file as "crazy" and that she has reported multiple guys she dated as having raped her At this point in time, my bother has a restraining order against her. Sounds like somebody needs to go to Lacuna Inc... 3
sweetkiwi Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I am sure creepiness can go both ways. And also what did she do or say to give you the creepy vibe? I've creeped out plenty of guys. 3
tuxedo cat Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I just thought of something actually. My ex went to go get drinks or something and left me with her laptop, I made a picture on Paint of something I knew would make her laugh, I was going to put it as her wallpaper. I went to save it in her Pictures folder when I found a folder named after me, I clicked on it and I found about 10-20 pictures of me. Some were from the forum we both met on, some were from my Facebook, from about half a year ago, she'd only saved them recently but it did creep me out a little as I only had one picture of her and that was on my phone as my background. I never spoke to her about it, but she must have known I had seen it considering I saved a picture in her Pictures folder :S I don't think that's weird. I've done that with a couple of ex boyfriends, particularly with one who lived far away and seeing pictures of him kept his memory alive at the times when he was gone. 2
tuxedo cat Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 That is what makes it the definition of creepy in my book. Is she lying (psycho) or telling the truth (really sad). And it was totally out of the blue. Until she asked for a ride home, she seemed perfectly normal. And her husband did not fit her description of him AT ALL. The guy was super jovial like Tom Arnold style... Abusive people can appear very nice and normal to the outside world. 2
tuxedo cat Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 When I was 19 or so I dated a woman who was around 23 for a couple of months. Everything was fine except towards the end, when she seemed pissed off at me for no reason I could discern. I broke off with her, and the nastiness escalated for a week or two, then died off. Done, right? No. Keep in mind this was 30 years ago. For the next 20-some-odd years, she sent my parents (who I'm not sure she ever met) a Christmas card. Three or four years ago, a friend of hers called to tell me this woman had died of cancer, and requested this friend to call me after her death. I checked the obits, because I wasn't sure this wasn't more weirdness, but it turned out to be true. I picture some kind of "GT" shrine in her living room. Wow, that's incredibly sad. She must have had no one in her life. She clearly needed help. 1
candie13 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 My sister's ex was stalking her for a while. Leaving fresh roses in front of her door, a few mornings. He got less romantic when he found out my sister had turned back with the guy she was dating before him... Sister had to file a complaint at the police and all. Never liked that guy, very very white skin and dark circles under his eyes. Sister said he was a great cook, so I never asked any questions...
Harradin Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 I don't think that's weird. I've done that with a couple of ex boyfriends, particularly with one who lived far away and seeing pictures of him kept his memory alive at the times when he was gone. Personally I find it a little weird as we lived close to each other (15 minute drive.) I wouldn't/never done it with any of my ex girlfriends or future girlfriends. I suppose its for her memories if she hasn't deleted them.
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