Guys: has a girl ever creeped you out?

[Eternal Sunshine]

I am sure creepiness can go both ways. And also what did she do or say to give you the creepy vibe?

[SJC2008]

I've never been creeped out by a woman but I've had a few wtf moments with them. I don't like to stereotype but a lot of women are fickle. I remember way back during a night school class a girl bought an icecream bar during a break. She unwrapped it and and stared at it like it was a dead body and didn't want to touch it. That was about 12 years ago lol and I still remember!

[carhill]

IME, vary rarely, and it predominantly revolved around inappropriate sexual forwardness, either because they were married or I didn't really know them. The corollary would be, if a lady were not predisposed to the idea, a man pawing her without even the inkling of there being a date involved.

 

I exclude the mentally ill/addiction-related ones because they really can't control their issues, whether globally or during specific situations. An example would be a drunk MW coming on to me. I don't see that as creepy. She's just messing up.

 

Surprisingly, most of my anecdotes have been otherwise quite attractive, meaning not lacking for social attention, the attention of men or a devoted husband. Interesting. Perhaps my perception of creepy is skewed.

[Object_a]

I had a woman start messaging me on a dating site asking me really personal questions. Not about sex exactly but she was asking strange questions about what I find attractive and why I liked certain types of women and stuff like that. She wanted hyper-detailed explanations and kept pressing for more information. She also kept asking me what I thought about open relationships, whether you can love more than one person, whether I would like to be in a MFF three-way relationship, all kinds of strange stuff.

 

A few days into this I was on a second date with someone else and I got that feeling like I was being watched. I looked across the room and these two women were looking at me, and when I made eye contact they started giggling and turned away. One of them was the woman who had been messaging me. I know it was probably just a coincidence since I hadn't told anyone else I'd be there and it wasn't even in my part of town, but it was way too weird.

 

The creepy one glared at me from the corner all night while I was trying to enjoy my date. Later on my date and I started gathering our things to leave and she came over to our table with some lame story about how her friend thought I was someone she knew and that's why they were staring. She just wanted a closer look to make sure it was me I think.

 

The next day I had this huge wall of text message in my inbox calling me every name under the sun. I was like WTF, I don't even know you! She stopped messaging me after this so I guess I dodged the bullet

[Woggle]

I once had a FWB turn into a stalker and I almost had to get a restraining order. One day she knocks on my door and starts stripping. The funny thing is at first she was so adamant about not wanting a relationship but I guess I made her change her mind.

[Pyro]

An ex of mine was under the suspicion that I was still talking to my ex before her, so the first ex (I am assuming and am 99.9% correct) made an IM account with the first ex's name and messaged me pretending to be her. My first ex hated talking online so I knew right away that it could not have been her.

 

I tested it by asking her a question about my first ex and she stopped responding. I confronted my ex about it but she denied it all.

[Summer Breeze]

I did a charity walk with some women I work with. During the chatter that ensued someone started talking about SOs. One woman started going on and on about her 'other half' and how he was away so couldn't be there that afternoon. She had a photo of him in her wallet and was really way over the top. I said to someone else that she and her fellow must be really in love and pretty early stages. She laughed and said yes, they'd been talking online for a couple of weeks and had never met.

 

I was creeped out on his behalf! Fortunately she got another job a few weeks after and I have no idea how it all turned out.

[Keenly]

I've never really been creeper out by a girl before... not in the way a woman would be creeped out by a man. I seen some ladies do some pretty Insane things but I don't think they would qualify as creepy

[Els]

A guy friend of mine once told me about this girl who asked him to hang out with her. He was meh about her, but she persisted, so he figured he'd just give it one shot then let her down easy after that.

 

So, they head to the mall, and she keeps trying to slip her hand into his. Guy gets very uncomfortable, and after they reach the mall he tells her he needs to buy something and will meet her at the cinema, then takes off like a lightning bolt. At the cinema, she wiggles suggestively at him and asks if she can borrow his jacket cause she's cold. He gets more uncomfortable, tells her he's just recovering from a flu and doesn't want to pass it on to her.

 

Yeah, I think that qualifies as creepy.

[somedude81]

Nope, never been creeped out by a girl.

 

I'm sure it would be a nice change of pace. As long as she was somewhat decent looking.

[Harradin]

I can be made really uncomfortable very easily, so people find it funny to creep me out so it happens on a regular basis. Never really had a girl creep me out on a dating kinda scene though.

[CryForNoOne]

About 3 years ago, while I was still in a LTR, I met a really creepy woman at a mutual friend's b-day party. My GF wasn't with me. This woman came with her husband. Both of them were super friendly and initially I thought very cool. I played pool with them and remember thinking the husband seemed like a stand-up guy. She claimed she went to Stanford, and I had a fairly intellectual conversation with her. You can't smoke in bars in CA, and at some point she asked me if I wanted to go outside for a smoke. It seemed totally innocent so I did, thinking nothing of it. We continued the convo probably for another 30 minutes outside and eventually we drifted back inside. She told me her husband had left already (I don't remember why) and asked me if I could give her a ride home. Getting strange now - but OK. As we are walking to my car, she literally pulls me aside to the alley and starts making out with me. I'm totally stunned but didn't stop her initially. When she starts to pull down my pants, I had to stop her. I told her WTF - I had a GF and she was married. She apologized and backed off. I told her I would take her home. We started driving but she wouldn't give me her address and instead tried to give me turn by turn directions. It didn't take too long before I realized we were driving in circles and I wasn't really taking her home. I pulled over and said "stop f**king aorund. Where do you live?" She proceeds to jump me again, and I stop her immediately. Then she starts sobbing and telling me her husband is an abusive a-hole and she's miserable, and that she had such a great future until she met him and now she is depressed all the time and her life is horrible. I genuinely felt bad at that point but told her we can't do anything and I need to take her home. We start driving again, and in no time I realize we're going nowhere again. I pull over and again she makes one more pass at me. I'd never done this before but I had no choice but to kick her out of my car and leave her at the curb.

 

For several months, I was very apprehensive anytime I went to a get together with our mutual friends because I was afraid that couple might show up. I eventually found out they moved away.

[MrCastle]

A few things that "creep me out."

 

-Seeing the kind of men a woman dated before me. Really? You let him touch you?

 

-Saying things that hint at marriage, children, or anything long term. "I wonder what our kids would look like!" or anything that tells me she is taking the relationship far more serious than I am

 

-Insecurity is creepy. Lack of trust, bogus questions, constant communication, etc. You know the type.

[FitChick]

I'm so grateful for all the crazy women because it makes me seem so wonderful by comparison!

[tuxedo cat]

About 3 years ago, while I was still in a LTR, I met a really creepy woman at a mutual friend's b-day party. My GF wasn't with me. This woman came with her husband. Both of them were super friendly and initially I thought very cool. I played pool with them and remember thinking the husband seemed like a stand-up guy. She claimed she went to Stanford, and I had a fairly intellectual conversation with her. You can't smoke in bars in CA, and at some point she asked me if I wanted to go outside for a smoke. It seemed totally innocent so I did, thinking nothing of it. We continued the convo probably for another 30 minutes outside and eventually we drifted back inside. She told me her husband had left already (I don't remember why) and asked me if I could give her a ride home. Getting strange now - but OK. As we are walking to my car, she literally pulls me aside to the alley and starts making out with me. I'm totally stunned but didn't stop her initially. When she starts to pull down my pants, I had to stop her. I told her WTF - I had a GF and she was married. She apologized and backed off. I told her I would take her home. We started driving but she wouldn't give me her address and instead tried to give me turn by turn directions. It didn't take too long before I realized we were driving in circles and I wasn't really taking her home. I pulled over and said "stop f**king aorund. Where do you live?" She proceeds to jump me again, and I stop her immediately. Then she starts sobbing and telling me her husband is an abusive a-hole and she's miserable, and that she had such a great future until she met him and now she is depressed all the time and her life is horrible. I genuinely felt bad at that point but told her we can't do anything and I need to take her home. We start driving again, and in no time I realize we're going nowhere again. I pull over and again she makes one more pass at me. I'd never done this before but I had no choice but to kick her out of my car and leave her at the curb.

 

For several months, I was very apprehensive anytime I went to a get together with our mutual friends because I was afraid that couple might show up. I eventually found out they moved away.

 

That's actually really sad.

[Mme. Chaucer]

I bet that many guys would be creeped out by some of this stuff!

 

Overly Attached Girlfriend

[ThaWholigan]

A woman at some party a few years ago kept touching my ass on the sly, that was kinda creepy. Then she pulled my hat off and told me to smile. Yeah, very uncomfortable.

[Harradin]

I just thought of something actually.

 

My ex went to go get drinks or something and left me with her laptop, I made a picture on Paint of something I knew would make her laugh, I was going to put it as her wallpaper. I went to save it in her Pictures folder when I found a folder named after me, I clicked on it and I found about 10-20 pictures of me. Some were from the forum we both met on, some were from my Facebook, from about half a year ago, she'd only saved them recently but it did creep me out a little as I only had one picture of her and that was on my phone as my background. I never spoke to her about it, but she must have known I had seen it considering I saved a picture in her Pictures folder :S

[wheream_i]

Is this kind of going against the notion that all women are suppposed to be desireable and should be considered sexy and beautiful no matter what?

 

Hell, I think women moreso than men! In the past 10 or 20 years, men have had to learn how to clean up and be gentlemen (although, very few still are) just in order to have a woman look in their general direction. Women (some, not all), on the other hand, still think that if they just "show up", there don't have to put forth the effort to even be desireable or wanted. And a lot of that is men's fault for even giving them the time of day.

 

So yes, there is such a thing as a female creep.

[CryForNoOne]

Actually one more creepy one and this was just a few days ago. I messaged a girl on OKC and we started conversing. It was almost real time messaging and within about 30 minutes I got her to agree to meetup. I suggested we take the convo offline and gave her my cell. She texted me immediately. We texted a bit and then I tried to set the date. She replied "why don't you tell me more about yourself." OK. She proceeded to ask question after question like a job interview. How many siblings? What years did you live that city? I eventually interrupted and said "My turn" and asked her some silly informational questions. I figured she was apprehensive so I texted her a YouTube video of a song I recorded so she could see/hear that I'm a real person. She listened and immediately replied "Wow you are really good. I'm surprised in a good way. My mom said you sound just like the real singer." WTF!!! Your mom is there with you??? I mean the song was 2.5 minutes and she replied in 3 minutes... I told her I didn't want to text so much (we were on 68 text messages) and that I was going to call her. I called and she did not answer. She replied "It's too soon". I was tempted to text exactly what I thought which was "Jesus Christ I'm not asking for sex, it not a date, it's just retardedly anti-social to exchange 68 text messages in 30 minutes rather than pickup the phone and talk to someone..." She asked me to call her the next day but I'm done...

[Woggle]

A couples years ago there used to be this girl on the boardwalk who would just sit on a bench on stare at people all day. I would take a walk in the morning and she would be there and when I got home from work and went up to get something to eat she would be sitting on that same bench just staring at people. It was weird.

[TheGuard13]

You all get creeped out by some weird, fairly normal stuff.

 

1) I was at a bar and a girl approached me. She said "You know when you have that weird awkward girl coming up to you because she thinks you're hot and says something weird. Well that's happening right now!"

 

Very creepy.

 

You probably should have married this one.

[Lonely Ronin]

on a few occasions......

 

The last time it happened, is was because she started talking about us and children when we where still in single didgit dates.

[CryForNoOne]

I would say 50/50 chance that she was making that up. I've met a few women like that in my life....and they were pathological liars.

 

That is what makes it the definition of creepy in my book. Is she lying (psycho) or telling the truth (really sad). And it was totally out of the blue. Until she asked for a ride home, she seemed perfectly normal. And her husband did not fit her description of him AT ALL. The guy was super jovial like Tom Arnold style...

[CryForNoOne]

You all get creeped out by some weird, fairly normal stuff.

 

 

 

You probably should have married this one.

 

LOL! I thought it was great pickup line myself...