acc120 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I have been dating a girl for several weeks now, we have known each other for a few years, and been close friends several months. Anyway, as our friendship and relationship developed I learned that she has never had a man able to "keep up" with her sex drive as in she wants it more often than they do. Well we first had sex about 3 weeks ago and have literally had sex at least once a day, or as much as 3 times everyday except one where schedule just did not allow it. She has also experienced 4-6 orgasams in each episode which she says is more than normal for her. She has experienced multiple orgasams during morning sex which she has said never happened with a single much less multiple. We have done fantasies of hers that no one else has fulfilled. Which overall seems like a great sex life for both of us. However I have only been in a sexual relationship with two other women, I learn today she has had sex with 12 other men, as well as engaged in threesomes with males and females, neither of which I have done or plan to do. She stated it was just for the enjoyment of her boyfriend at the time. I also have a below average penis size which I have always been insecure about, but she says she has no problem with. The whole situation is very intimidating to me and I don't know if it's just me being paranoid or maybe I'm right in being intimidated and should end it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Lani Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Wha? It all sounds like it's going pretty well.. Why are you even questioning what's going on? Get out of your head dude, it's crazy in there! 2
Djz05 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Relax, you're just being paranoid. Dont overthink it and just enjoy your relationship 1
carhill Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Welcome to LS How old are you and she? What's her relationship history? You mentioned a boyfriend who she 'went along with' regarding certain sexual practices. What else?
ChessPieceFace Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 (edited) she has never had a man able to "keep up" with her sex drive as in she wants it more often than they do. Gross. I learn today she has had sex with 12 other men, as well as engaged in threesomes with males and females, neither of which I have done or plan to do. She stated it was just for the enjoyment of her boyfriend at the time. Hahaha I don't think so. You just said she never had a guy that could keep up with her drive, so why would this guy want threesomes? Pretty sure she wanted the threesomes. Let me guess how that convo went: - Somehow the topic of threesomes came up - Her "yeah, I've done some threesomes before" - You (surpressed look of discomfort / shock) - Her "It was just cause my BF wanted to" She seems way slutty but hey, if you are enjoying it, good for you. Edited April 4, 2013 by ChessPieceFace 1
todreaminblue Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I have been dating a girl for several weeks now, we have known each other for a few years, and been close friends several months. Anyway, as our friendship and relationship developed I learned that she has never had a man able to "keep up" with her sex drive as in she wants it more often than they do. Well we first had sex about 3 weeks ago and have literally had sex at least once a day, or as much as 3 times everyday except one where schedule just did not allow it. She has also experienced 4-6 orgasams in each episode which she says is more than normal for her. She has experienced multiple orgasams during morning sex which she has said never happened with a single much less multiple. We have done fantasies of hers that no one else has fulfilled. Which overall seems like a great sex life for both of us. However I have only been in a sexual relationship with two other women, I learn today she has had sex with 12 other men, as well as engaged in threesomes with males and females, neither of which I have done or plan to do. She stated it was just for the enjoyment of her boyfriend at the time. I also have a below average penis size which I have always been insecure about, but she says she has no problem with. The whole situation is very intimidating to me and I don't know if it's just me being paranoid or maybe I'm right in being intimidated and should end it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. when you have experienced a lot of sexual experiences it comes down to one you know what you like adn you have been there and doen that got th etsshirt found it unfullfilling as she is with you now, so obviously, she has made her choice two penis size is not important as long as you have one and are willing to use it three you dont have any desire to cheat or find fulfillment elsewhere you know what it is to be sexually fulfilled so all in all you stay with teh person who makes you happy and it doesnt all revolve around sex anymore ,you have nothing to worry about....unless she tells you that you do....which if she is experienced she will let you know.....deb.......
Object_a Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 If you're both having fun then worrying about this is just going to undermine your confidence and make you look insecure, which is really not attractive. Just enjoy it and be cool! 1
Author acc120 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 (edited) Welcome to LS How old are you and she? What's her relationship history? You mentioned a boyfriend who she 'went along with' regarding certain sexual practices. What else? I'm 28, she will be 36 next week, she is divorced with a 9 and a 6 year old, she lost her virginity to the father of the children and has had her "adventurous times" since the divorce which was just under 6 years ago. Edited April 4, 2013 by acc120 Correction
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