starla33 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I went on a date (haven't for a while since I was taking a break and getting over a douchebag I was previously seeing that didn't want a relationship....yeah story of my life). So the date was going well and we had a lot in common and we kissed a bit at the end and the guy basically started going for my chest...OUT in the street. I mean it doesn't matter where it was it was a first date and not ok. I told him that I don't know what kind of girls hes used to, but I'm not that kind of girl and that pretty much turned him off and doubt he will be talking to me again. I mean good riddance. But seriously WHAT THE HELL I think I need to move. This dating in big cities thing is awful and all my friends that moved away have instant bfs/fiances
Noproblem Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Annoying really.....But, I think there are good guys out there! Don't lose hope 1
Author starla33 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Annoying really.....But, I think there are good guys out there! Don't lose hope THERE IS NOT IN THIS DAMN CITY. Why is it me and all my friends have such issues and as soon as they move away they get a guy? I mean that is proof right there. Guys here....even average guys...think they are the **** 2
Noproblem Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 THERE IS NOT IN THIS DAMN CITY. Why is it me and all my friends have such issues and as soon as they move away they get a guy? I mean that is proof right there. Guys here....even average guys...think they are the **** Oh, no I want to move to big cities one day
Author starla33 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Oh, no I want to move to big cities one day Don't do it! I'm dying to get out...otherwise I swear will die alone here 1
nessaaa Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 THERE IS NOT IN THIS DAMN CITY. Why is it me and all my friends have such issues and as soon as they move away they get a guy? I mean that is proof right there. Guys here....even average guys...think they are the **** Which city are you talking about? 1
Author starla33 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Which city are you talking about? West Coast
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 If its a big city and you are a female who can't get a guy. A. Your exceptionally ugly B. your exceptionally picky C. you have no idea what you're doing Which is it? Me: all of the above :laugh: 2
Author starla33 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 If its a big city and you are a female who can't get a guy. A. Your exceptionally ugly B. your exceptionally picky C. you have no idea what you're doing Which is it? I'm attractive and I model so that is not it. I'm not that picky either guys here just refuse to commit to anything. This city is GREAT for dating...it's not for relationships or anything meaningful
Author starla33 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Females do this to themselves. They seek out the guys who approach first who are naturally the most agressive and move fasten on wanting sex. Folks, it isn't rocket science! A female could go for the shy guy but that would require effort on her part. This is not true. The last guy I went out with was a shy engineer yet he had like another 2 chicks he was dating. So no this is not the case here unfortunately. Somewhere else maybe 1
suladas Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Me: all of the above :laugh: You're such a bad liar ES! 2
Author starla33 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 If your being honest A and B are out so that leaves C. Entire cities aren't homogeneous even small ones. Your doing something wrong and I don't know what but its you. Are your political/spiritual beliefs unusual for your city? I'm ultra conservative but so is much of Oklahoma. Your gonna have to try new things. Ie try different types of guys, expand age range, you making the first move. If your a model try dressing down or you may be giving off too much of a sexual vibe. There are a ton of pretty girls here i'm not special. Anyway polyamory is very popular here atm and well I'm not ok with that.
nessaaa Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I call BS. No way you're having issues finding a bf is you're as hot as you say you are. You dont have to be hot to be model you know?- you just have to be skinny and know hownto work the camera. Just because someone says they model it doesnt they work for victoria secret.
Author starla33 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 You dont have to be hot to be model you know?- you just have to be skinny and know hownto work the camera. Just because someone says they model it doesnt they work for victoria secret. I"m a glamour model not runway so I'm not super skinny or anything
Noproblem Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Well, guys don't usually want to commit and you seem like you want to have a long lasting relationship, I'm sure they sense that right away and run away as fast as they can! But, if they felt like you don't care, maybe they'll try harder to make you care!
Author starla33 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Well, guys don't usually want to commit and you seem like you want to have a long lasting relationship, I'm sure they sense that right away and run away as fast as they can! But, if they felt like you don't care, maybe they'll try harder to make you care! I just end up with fwb this way....and no they don't go off getting a gf after me either. They keep on sleeping around 1
nessaaa Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I call BS. No way you're having issues finding a bf is you're as hot as you say you are. I"m a glamour model not runway so I'm not super skinny or anything Cool. im just fying him.
frustr8ed Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Maybe you had a bug on your chest. It could have been a boo bee.
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