GorillaTheater Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Look, I don't mean to insult you or hurt your feelings, but your aloof demeanor just sounds like a farce to me. Whoa. Bad karma, dude. 3
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 this. neither is this karma since well he was still trying to reconcile with this woman a week ago and is undoubtedly using this thread as a coping mechansim for his hurt upon finding out this news. i wish i had sympathy but this guy refuses to take ANY steps towards self-respect. Trust me I'm not hurt. I'm oddly happy. This issue broke me away from her for good. Not to mention I am not in the middle of the pregnancy issue. I feel like I dodged a huge bullet. I am not hurting at all. I was hurt orginally when she started dating this guy 4 months ago. But not that he got her pregnant. I know it sounds strange but I feel great. I do feel bad for her though. It's a tough issue for someone to deal with.
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 Whoa. Bad karma, dude. No farce at all. I feel great. Her getting pregnant made me feel like I am on the outside. The pregnancy changed my mindset completely. I know it sounds strange like I should be hurt. Actually I feel pity for her. No pain on my side. Plus I am not in the middle of that issue. That is between them. So I guess the best I can explain it as relief I am not in this situation. Her getting pregnant freed me. For many reasons. One is, I mentioned the karma thing in jest but in reality if she stayed with me she wouldn't have gotten pregnant. Maybe I feel some vindication? Not sure. There are other reasons too but she complicated her life and don't need all of this drama. When we were together there was little drama except from a bit from her ex husband but this is a whole other level.
destroyed4sho Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 There's no way this story is over yet. This chick will find a way to rope Coping Vortex back because he has the self-control of a 5-year-old at Toys R Us. My thoughts exactly. As soon as bf dumps her ass, your the next victim in line. You are going to end up with a LIAR for a wife, 4 kids that are not yours despite a vasectomy. You need to get a grip on reality..like NOW.
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 My thoughts exactly. As soon as bf dumps her ass, your the next victim in line. You are going to end up with a LIAR for a wife, 4 kids that are not yours despite a vasectomy. You need to get a grip on reality..like NOW. Sorry guys but that is not going to happen. Sorry to disappoint all of you.
TaraMaiden Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Sorry guys but that is not going to happen. Sorry to disappoint all of you. What..... THis?? ...As soon as bf dumps her ass, your the next victim in line. You are going to end up with a LIAR for a wife, 4 kids that are not yours despite a vasectomy.[/i] or this.....?? ...You need to get a grip on reality..like NOW. 1
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 What..... THis?? or this.....?? you're funny. Shouldn't you be working on your fourth husband by now?
TaraMaiden Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 He's still a bit young yet..... by the time I get rid of this one, he should be just about ready...... 1
iouaname Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Maybe this is what you needed, CV? You weren't able to extract yourself from her and she didn't seem to let you, either, so now this situation is going to force the two of you apart for good. I know how hard it must be for you, but it's kind of like a blessing in disguise. One day you will look back on all of this and be thankful that this happened, because otherwise this could have gone on for far too long!
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 Maybe this is what you needed, CV? You weren't able to extract yourself from her and she didn't seem to let you, either, so now this situation is going to force the two of you apart for good. I know how hard it must be for you, but it's kind of like a blessing in disguise. One day you will look back on all of this and be thankful that this happened, because otherwise this could have gone on for far too long! Yes it has forced me apart from her. Plus I know she has been getting closer to him everyday that has gone by. Hard to stay in her heart when I can't see her or be with her. She has tried to pull me back in here and there and I believed her, I think she did too based on memories. But now its just been too long and this has just added a whole other level of surrealness to whatever has been going on. So yes this has been the thing that has gotten me away from her.
jovan Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 My ex confirmed to me today that she is pregnant by her bf. Can you say karma? Lololol! I am taking delight in this lol. hahahahah dudeee you dodged a bullet there
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 (edited) hahahahah dudeee you dodged a bullet there Well no ever bullet ever coming my way as I wouldn't have gotten her pregnant. LOLOL!!!! Edited April 8, 2013 by Coping Vortex
Mcnulty Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 But all I’ve ever learned from love Was how to shoot at someone who outdrew you Leonard learned bud, shame you didn't. Look to the future only...your future...without her...you will get there.
siankat Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 (edited) "she has more issues than National Geographic" LOL (at the quote not her) Edited April 9, 2013 by siankat dunno how to quote from posts
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