Coping Vortex Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 My ex confirmed to me today that she is pregnant by her bf. Can you say karma? Lololol! I am taking delight in this lol. 2
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Karma my ass. This is what this woman purposely CHOOSES to do. She had 3 with her Ex-husband who abused the hell out of her and now one with this turd. Had you not been "fixed", she would have gladly let you knock her up too. There you go... I connected the dots for you, I will let you color it in. Well she said they used protection (condoms). She was shocked she got pregnant. Trust me she did not want to get pregnant. But hey like I said karma. Lololol
lovelifexx Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I am a girl and I know a lot of girls that pretend like it was an accident to get pregnant. Believe me, some girls use it as their weapon - they believe it's a way to keep the guy. Both my bro's ex girlfriends did it to him, now he has two children. And a friend of mine did it too. There's a good chance that it wasn't karma, this is what she wanted. Sorry to burst your bubble. 2
destroyed4sho Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 (edited) My ex confirmed to me today that she is pregnant by her bf. Can you say karma? Lololol! I am taking delight in this lol. I just read your previous thread. She is one messed up confused woman. She needs help...and she toyed with your emotions....you said he mother was bipolar? Quit possible she is too or this back and forth, confusion, fickle behavior is normalcy for her. She was toxic...thank goodness you escaped without any biological ties or responsibility...be happy for that. Edited April 4, 2013 by destroyed4sho
candie13 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 You are a lucky, lucky man! That is your karma, not hers! Irrelevant of what she wanted or not, consciously or subconsciously, she is bringing another life into the world. Let this be an clear ending to you and may you move on, finally and completely. To me, what gave me closure, was seeing the guy I fancied with another girl. He thought he's get my attention by kissing her in front of me. Yeah, more like my making my stomach turn. There's something... so definite when you see your SO with another person. With your own eyes. I'm too smart to just deny the reality in front of my eyes. So when the guy came after me, one more time, I simply didn't even blink... People are really fu*ked up. Learn your limits and respect them. I am sorry for the pain you must be going through. I've always said it's not the break up in itself, it is the letting go part that is the most difficult part, when parting ways. Giving up hope. Moving from the past to today. Not looking back, but looking forward. I hope this gives you the closure you need.
geegirl Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Karma? If to you it means she got her payback, unlikely. She chose to get pregnant, and most likely wanted to get pregnant and I am sure she's not cursing the fact that she is. After all the lies, you still believe whatever she says. 1
destroyed4sho Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Karma? If to you it means she got her payback, unlikely. She chose to get pregnant, and most likely wanted to get pregnant and I am sure she's not cursing the fact that she is. After all the lies, you still believe whatever she says. Exactly. Most likely she wanted to.rope someone in to take care of.her and her kids by having their child. She couldnt do that with coping. I have a feeling this story has not ended... especially if her now bf sees her for who she really is and calls it quits...coping will get screwed big time. He is so delusioned.by.this woman he cant help.himself. She is this magnificent human being that can do no wrong. Reality is she is a manipulative cheater and a liar with no means of supporting herself.and her kids. She is a child living in a grown.ups body. She needs help.
Calvin's wagon Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 While I can understand you're angry&enjoying this, I feel sorry for the baby (and her other 3 kids, if this reduces their quality of life due to financial issues etc.), especially if he/she really wasn't planned or wanted. 1
Calvin's wagon Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Also, does that mean you're communicating with her again? I got the impression that you were maintaining no contact with her. 1
TaraMaiden Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Do I need to give yet ANOTHER damn lesson on what the hell Karma is?? You guys NOT paying any attention to TM, AGAIN - ?? What is Karma, exactly?? hands up anyone who actually KNOWS the RIGHT answer - !! :mad: 5
CarrieT Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Vortex, HOW did you learn about the pregnancy? You in contact with her? I'm willing to bet she sucks you into her baby dramas... :rolleyes: 2
Chi townD Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 @ Coping Okay, so......why did she feel the need to tell you about it? It should be none of your business, right? 2
headsashed Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Ive not really followed your story so i dont really understand how her getting pregnant is karma,unless she got used by a rebound or something. What is karma? its just some myth that broken hearted people hold on to,hoping their ex gets hurt somehow because of what they did to you. If karma existed then im sure something would have happened to my 2 previous ex's whom both cheated on me, 1 is happily married with kids and my most recent ex is with someone else,she had more bf's than ive had beers,both my ex's are happy so i personally don't believe in karma. Oh and howdo chitown my american friend
Simon Phoenix Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 There's no way this story is over yet. This chick will find a way to rope Coping Vortex back because he has the self-control of a 5-year-old at Toys R Us. 4
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 I just read your previous thread. She is one messed up confused woman. She needs help...and she toyed with your emotions....you said he mother was bipolar? Quit possible she is too or this back and forth, confusion, fickle behavior is normalcy for her. She was toxic...thank goodness you escaped without any biological ties or responsibility...be happy for that. Yes she always seemed so together for most of the years I knew her. Really a great girl to be around everyone loves her she is really cute fun girl, great mom, great GF and love you like crazy etc. But yes lately she has made some really bad decisions and choices lately. You maybe right that her mothers issues have trickled down to her. Her mother had a huge stroke recently and she has been having to take care of her when possible I know that has taken a toll on her as well. Her life has been turning out to be a circus lately. Not too pat myself too much on the back, but i was the best thing that happened to her. I helped her with so much in her life. I thing she realizes that now. But too late now.
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 There's no way this story is over yet. This chick will find a way to rope Coping Vortex back because he has the self-control of a 5-year-old at Toys R Us. Dude please I have more control than you'll ever know. I loved this girl yes but I'm not a fool as to what happened now. Stop with the character bashing you know don't jack sh*t about me. But what I mentioned in some posts. You come on a forum and now you are some sort of an expert. Really wise up.
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 @ Coping Okay, so......why did she feel the need to tell you about it? It should be none of your business, right? I contacted her as to why she disappeared after telling me she wanted to work it out the week before. I met up with her and kept badgering her. She did not want to tell me anything. She tried to avoid telling me for 10 minutes until I made her tell me what was going on. She was very embarrassed.She couldn't look me in the eye. I guess the only reason I made it my business was we talked reconciliation the week before and she disappeared I wanted to know what happened. I knew something wasn't right.
Simon Phoenix Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Dude please I have more control than you'll ever know. I loved this girl yes but I'm not a fool as to what happened now. Stop with the character bashing you know don't jack sh*t about me. But what I mentioned in some posts. You come on a forum and now you are some sort of an expert. Really wise up. Sorry dude, I've read all of this from you before and it never seems to stick. So excuse me, and several others, if we are skeptical here. I'd be happy to be wrong and hopefully I will have to "wise up" -- whatever the heck that means. But if getting angry at other posters and proving us wrong out of spite gets you out of this funk permanently, then feel free. Mission would be accomplished.
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Ive not really followed your story so i dont really understand how her getting pregnant is karma,unless she got used by a rebound or something. What is karma? its just some myth that broken hearted people hold on to,hoping their ex gets hurt somehow because of what they did to you. If karma existed then im sure something would have happened to my 2 previous ex's whom both cheated on me, 1 is happily married with kids and my most recent ex is with someone else,she had more bf's than ive had beers,both my ex's are happy so i personally don't believe in karma. Oh and howdo chitown my american friend I think you are being a tad bit literal here. Just a saying. Maybe in your situation Karma didn't exist and mine it did. LOL! Don't take it so seriously.
Author Coping Vortex Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Sorry dude, I've read all of this from you before and it never seems to stick. So excuse me, and several others, if we are skeptical here. I'd be happy to be wrong and hopefully I will have to "wise up" -- whatever the heck that means. But if getting angry at other posters and proving us wrong out of spite gets you out of this funk permanently, then feel free. Mission would be accomplished. Thank you. If my threads annoy you that much why post on them?
Simon Phoenix Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Thank you. If my threads annoy you that much why post on them? Where did I say I was annoyed?
Jono85 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 There's no way this story is over yet. This chick will find a way to rope Coping Vortex back because he has the self-control of a 5-year-old at Toys R Us. this. neither is this karma since well he was still trying to reconcile with this woman a week ago and is undoubtedly using this thread as a coping mechansim for his hurt upon finding out this news. i wish i had sympathy but this guy refuses to take ANY steps towards self-respect.
Kenji Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Look, I don't mean to insult you or hurt your feelings, but your aloof demeanor just sounds like a farce to me.
Damaged23 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Why do you always get so defensive, Vortex? You clearly follow no one's advice but your own. I think you should let her go already. :/ 2
TaraMaiden Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Ive not really followed your story so i dont really understand how her getting pregnant is karma,unless she got used by a rebound or something. What is karma? its just some myth that broken hearted people hold on to,hoping their ex gets hurt somehow because of what they did to you. 'Myth' is right... Because that's not what Karma is. Everyone - including you, it seems - has completely the wrong idea of what 'Karma' is. People think it's payback. A kick-in-the -@ss. Revenge. Come-uppance. Just desserts.... Nope. none of the above. Aaaall wrong..... If karma existed then im sure something would have happened to my 2 previous ex's whom both cheated on me, 1 is happily married with kids and my most recent ex is with someone else,she had more bf's than ive had beers,both my ex's are happy so i personally don't believe in karma. Oh, but it does my friend... it does... And I'll tell you why.... Sit back and prepare to be educated..... I think you are being a tad bit literal here. Just a saying. Maybe in your situation Karma didn't exist and mine it did. LOL! Don't take it so seriously. It actually exists in EVERYBODY'S situation. It exists for anyone no matter who they are - dumper, dumpee, cheater, OW, MM, WW, whatever. It exists for you, me and everyone. You wanna know why? because the proper, accurate and correct definition of Karma, is, quite simply - Volitional and deliberate Action. Any Action done on purpose. Be it Mental (thought), Verbal (word), or Physical (deed), any action you deliberately carry out, is 'Karma'. To every Karma (Action/Cause) there is a consequence/effect. This is known as 'Vipaka'. so really, what you're all talking about, when you mention come-uppance, revenge, the kick-up-the-ass or just desserts - is in fact, Vipaka. But it's not a judgemental, evaluative, critical process. it just - 'is'. It doesn't punish, or anything. It's just an action,and its result. Stub your toes - it hurts. Help an old lady across the road, she will be grateful. Punch a guy in the throat, he will be angry. It's just A resulting in B. Volitional. Deliberate. Forethought. TbH, Karma-Vipaka is actually a whole lot more complex in its process than I'm explaining, but Karma is so complex sometimes in its manifestation, that even not all Buddhists can quite agree on how it 'works'. In fact, we are advised to not try to work it out, because we will end up with our brain in tatters and our minds in knots..... Just don't talk about 'people gettin' their karma'... You may think you know what you mean - but you don't. So call it what you will - but don't call it 'Karma'. Okay....? 1
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