soccerrprp Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Is there a way I can keep contact you, like an email or somethin, if you want. No, I'm afraid that would not be wise. Giving you my email would mean thousands of others on this site would be privy to it and the same concern would apply if you shared yours. Just keep posting here and when you have access to you PM (private message) feature, use that to contact me, if you like. But, really, I just don't get why you think that he's really changed. Your friend contacted him and asked about why he's treating you like this, but he doesn't contact you???? He hasn't put forth a single plan of ACTION to show that he wants you back. He hasn't even communicated with you on this. Just continue with NC (no communication) and if you're willing to give this guy another chance, then make him do A LOT OF WORK to get back with you. I strongly believe you should leave him and move on. His words of action are just that words. His actions, which mean infinitely more, have already revealed an unsavory personality. A personality that you will have to deal with if you get back with him. 2
Author Amy4452 Posted April 11, 2013 Author Posted April 11, 2013 So, he kept txting today and I answered him after his fifth msg. we talked and he said that I love you and I will keep loving you no matter what and I want to be friend now to see how you doing and staff I said ok and I asked him if he went again to sleep with this girl nd he said no since we broke up like since 20 days. So, I don't know now. What you think
ThatJustHappened Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 I think you're making a huge mistake, and he's just going to keep stringing you along as long as you're willing to let him. You know what you need to do. Find the strength to do it.
Zahara Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 It makes so much sense when they love you more than anyone and they want to fix it all with you, BUT only to just be your friend. How sweet. A bunch of hogwash!
Author Amy4452 Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 (edited) So, we were friends and he promised me of marriage and stuff but then two days ago we went out and he said that he loves me. After a day he was talking to a new girl on facebook and he's like oh I like you and I want you and she's the same and she only knows him for two days. They met at wedding and he telling her lies and lies he told her lies about his past girlfriend and about me he told her that he left me becasue I get sad very easy and I wanted to be his friend but he's the one who asked to be friends and he said that we broke up 7 months ago but we recently broke up. Also,he was like I stopped drinking and going out but he was sleeping with a girl the day before. I just can't believed what I'm seeing I'm really shocked I stopped talking to him. I didn't even tell him I don't want you anymore I just stopped yesterday and he never txted and I don't think he will ever txt I was just nothing to him. I don't think he even likes this girl he's just having fun and she's in another state but she's coming this month. I just can't believe this guy why he lied to me why he did that. Is he ever gonna love someone or he will just be like this forever. I found out that he also was talking to a girl before we start dating and he left her. He just telling this girl that he loves her and he want her but I think he doesn't. I'm really really in shocked that he would be like this Edited April 30, 2013 by Amy4452
soccerrprp Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 So, we were friends and he promised me of marriage and stuff but then two days ago we went out and he said that he loves me. After a day he was talking to a new girl on facebook and he's like oh I like you and I want you and she's the same and she only knows him for two days. They met at wedding and he telling her lies and lies he told her lies about his past girlfriend and about me he told her that he left me becasue I get sad very easy and I wanted to be his friend but he's the one who asked to be friends and he said that we broke up 7 months ago but we recently broke up. Also,he was like I stopped drinking and going out but he was sleeping with a girl the day before. I just can't believed what I'm seeing I'm really shocked I stopped talking to him. I didn't even tell him I don't want you anymore I just stopped yesterday and he never txted and I don't think he will ever txt I was just nothing to him. I don't think he even likes this girl he's just having fun and she's in another state but she's coming this month. I just can't believe this guy why he lied to me why he did that. Is he ever gonna love someone or he will just be like this forever. I found out that he also was talking to a girl before we start dating and he left her. He just telling this girl that he loves her and he want her but I think he doesn't. I'm really really in shocked that he would be like this CASE CLOSED. You've seen and heard all that you needed to. He sucks!!!!! You deserve a real man....move on. 2
CorridorE Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 My ex did the same thing; after the breakup he said he was confused, regretful of cheating, and thought he wanted to work it out, but not even a week later I found out he was talking to other girls, hanging out with them and even sexting them. Once a cheater always a cheater. Maybe not in RARE cases, but for the most part they aren't worth it... go completely no contact, no matter what he says. You can't trust him and you deserve better. I'm sorry. 1
Jbum5 Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 Amy, let's get this straight: you had what you thought was a nice boyfriend who turned out to be a cheating imbecile. Get over him. You're 22, young, full of life, and beautiful. Don't be a moron by letting this guy drag you half-way through the mud and then leave you there to sink. He's a dime a dozen just like all the other buffoons. In time when your head gets in the clear, you'll realize what a lovesick fool you were and be glad that you found a better partner. 1
Author Amy4452 Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 hahahaha I loved how you said case closed. I know I think god wanted me to know and see what he is. He changed his facebook password but I tried many times to see what the password and I figure it out which shows me what he's talking to this girl and it's just the same as he was talking with me. When she asked him if you cheated on those girls he said no I didn't cheat and god knows lol. It was funny to read his lies but I feel sorry to this girl. He keeps on lying and I don't think he will ever love anyone in his life. I keep looking at our pictures and crying to see how he turned out to be. I never thought he would be like that. He also promising her with marriage and stuff but it all lies. If you lied from the begining, the relationship will never last.!
Author Amy4452 Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 same here! Even to the last day on sunday he kept saying that he loves me and he want me and he will never find another girl and he trying to work hard to get married. But God showed me that he's a lier. I know that he doesn't love me and he never loved me which it hurts me a lottttttttt. He made me believe him
Rebecca1134 Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Never talk to him again! Erase his number....trust me..
Author Amy4452 Posted May 3, 2013 Author Posted May 3, 2013 I feel lonely and no one listen to me or cares to my feeling. I was living a lie and he doesnt care about me or has any feeling about what he did! Why when you need someone to talk to, you dont find anyone. Im the only one who listen to people but no one listen to me.
TaraMaiden Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 What the phukk do you think we're doing....?? What are we, scotch mist? We've supported you all the way through. Quit sounding like an Emotional Vampire, and start healing for yourself! Jeesh, girl, c'mon!!
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