AKisBaked Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I've decided to shut down my FB account and not use FB for a long time. I just figured that I don't see myself moving on and progressing because I have the source to go on it and search up my past life and ex. I know some of you may say, "what's the point in deactivating your account?" " or "just block her and problem solved" or " "have more self control." Easier said than done. I know some people on here maybe able to just keep its not a big deal to them but I just seem to not be able to get out of this funk. I believe its because social media is keeping me hung on to the past. It's going to be weird not to go on because I'm sure most of many LSer's have FB and it's like their daily routine to just go on it everyday. I am too like that. I just feel that it's the only way for me to really break out of this and move on. I know this may sound like a stupid way of being better, but I think personally it's going to help me. Has anyone did this before and how did you feel afterwards by doing it? Lemme know and give me support!! much appreciated
Compromize Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Did it years ago, not to not see an ex, just because I didn't believe the good of it outweighed the potential bad. I think my ex used it to contact guys from her past. Can't prove anything, its just this gut feeling I have. When I had it she wouldn't accept my friend request because it might have offended her ex husband... Wow I was an idiot. You won't miss it man.
h3braica Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 after the break up i deactivated my fb account temporarily but ex deleted his acct. it helps me to move on in some ways cause fb were part of our relationship, we chat and play games a lot. i joined because of him and it only made me miss him activating it. cutting ties with ex helped me to progress.
h3braica Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 even if he deleted his account in fb i still feel sad knowing he's gone. fb always reminds me of him.
lilacwine Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I've decided to shut down my FB account and not use FB for a long time. I just figured that I don't see myself moving on and progressing because I have the source to go on it and search up my past life and ex. I know some of you may say, "what's the point in deactivating your account?" " or "just block her and problem solved" or " "have more self control." Easier said than done. I know some people on here maybe able to just keep its not a big deal to them but I just seem to not be able to get out of this funk. I believe its because social media is keeping me hung on to the past. It's going to be weird not to go on because I'm sure most of many LSer's have FB and it's like their daily routine to just go on it everyday. I am too like that. I just feel that it's the only way for me to really break out of this and move on. I know this may sound like a stupid way of being better, but I think personally it's going to help me. Has anyone did this before and how did you feel afterwards by doing it? Lemme know and give me support!! much appreciated I made stupid mistake of being contact with my ex five months after the breakup and of course, it did me no good. I couldn't stand being his "friend" so I decided to go into no contact. After that, I deactivated my facebook account for a good 3 months. It really helped. REALLY. I feel heaps and heaps better now. I recently used facebook again to be in touch with my other friends. At the same time, I found myself checking up on my ex again, which set me back from my healing. Finally, I decided to block him. I just blocked him yesterday. And it feels awesome. I strongly support your decision to stay off facebook for a while.
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