ajhussi Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 I told a girl that I liked for a year about my true feelings for her. She said that she was flattered and told me she saw me just as a friend and that she is seeing someone else (even though her fb says single) When I told her that this is going to be awkward and she probably hates me, she replies, "why would I hate someone that loves me so much? That person would be the furthest from being hated by me"
CC12 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 It means that she only sees you as a friend and that she's unavailable to date you and that she doesn't hate you. Why do you think she didn't mean exactly what she told you?
pbjbear Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 She likes you as a friend, nothing more. When you like someone as a friend, you care for them without being romantically attached. The dreaded friendzone the men on this site refer to. (Shhhhh ranting will start soon...) May god bless your soul
Lani Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Yeah, she means exactly what she said. Further points- - Do not base whether or not someone is single on their facebook status. - Don't be all passive with the 'you probably hate me'. This is definitely not going to change her mind about you. - Don't be awkward about it. Be her friend if you can handle that, if not, just distance yourself from her.
Noproblem Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Hope you can get over her soon..... She considers you a nice friend, that's it for now!
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