fwolfe2011 Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 I may have made a mistake. A female just recently started working at my job and we have been seeing each other for the last 2 weeks, I am currently working in information systems field. Since the relationship is new and we have been talking I just don't see the same intellectual level in the way she speaks, the questions she asks. She always seems confused and that is a huge turn off. How do I go about telling her that I don't mind her physically, but on an intellectual level there is a problem. Thanks all Frank
RachR Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 Don't do that, why be cruel for no reason? Or are you trying to say that you want casual sex with her? If so, somehow make it known you'd be interested in something casual but nothing more, but don't tell her because she's stupid for christ's sake. If you just want casual sex, I suggest looking for someone not a coworker.
StanMusial Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Just tell her you don't feel like you have any common bond or interests. Or stop pursuing her and have that answer ready in case she wonders why.
Lani Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Information systems huh? Yeah, don't tell her you don't like her intellectually, that is just really mean. Tell her you don't really see anything serious with her, and see how she responds. She may be feeling the same way about you, and will respond with 'maybe we should just have sex then?'. Stranger things have happened.
Author fwolfe2011 Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 Great advice. Keep in mind, I would never ever tell a girl that she is stupid. I wouldn't want that done to me so would never. I do feel some common bond, but I don't want to continue on if that is how I feel.
Lani Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 Great advice. Keep in mind, I would never ever tell a girl that she is stupid. I wouldn't want that done to me so would never. I do feel some common bond, but I don't want to continue on if that is how I feel. Then don't continue on. You seem to have already made up your mind, so let her know that before she embarrasses herself.
Author fwolfe2011 Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 Thanks Lani! I have been easing my text messages back. I have to make the final move. Thanks again
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