Katrina26 Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 I have started a relationship with this guy who seems to be a good one. I know Flacoln and michelle kept telling me not to analyze the relationship so much and just go with the flow (which I have being doing). Now we have two weeks and it seems that we both are getting too attached to each other. We were having a conversation about my job being in hold and he said that at least he would have more time to see me and I replied that that was the only positive outcome of having my job on hold. Then he said that I was going to get tired of him and not want to see him (what happened in his past relationships) and I said I won't get tired of him. Since we joke around so much ( I told him one of these days you are going to wake up and tell me you are tired of me bothering you) and he replied that he won't because he misses me a lot. Oh welll I know it can be infatuation but is it normal to have a a mutual fear of getting dumped when a relationship is going so well?
pbjbear Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 At first I was gonna say "awww cute! enjoy this stage" until you said it "happened with his exes" Make sure he understands that you need your space. He may just be a clingy person if hes been dumped several times because girls get sick of him. It is a red flag but not hopeless. I do think people can unlearn clinginess.
Author Katrina26 Posted April 3, 2013 Author Posted April 3, 2013 At first I was gonna say "awww cute! enjoy this stage" until you said it "happened with his exes" Make sure he understands that you need your space. He may just be a clingy person if hes been dumped several times because girls get sick of him. It is a red flag but not hopeless. I do think people can unlearn clinginess. Lol i do enjoy him being like that because im the same so thats why we feel kinda afraid that we found someone who is able to cope with the attachment. And thanks
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