savethedrama4allama Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 Every time I think its the last I'll hear of her, but no. Now that she has no method of communication with my boyfriend, she has started calling his friend. Mind you, they were not friends on the level of phone call when she and my boyfriend dated. She has gotten his number 1.5 years AFTER the fact and has (coincidentally since my boyfriend changed his number) taken an extreme interest in this friend...inviting him to parties, out for her birthday, shooting the crap. Well she calls this guy Sunday, he doesn't pick up because he knows she's trouble...she leaves a voicemail saying she "knows something about a friend of his" and its an emergency. So he thinks someone is in the hospital, and calls her back. Nope, she wants to tell him that I have hacked into her email account, and I've been sending her and various members of her family emails in an attempt to gain information. Say what? At the end of her monologue, she concluded with "I just wouldn't want to see someone get hurt." Is that a threat? At least her sad attempt was lost. She offered to send this friend my supposed emails and he said "no thanks, I don't believe you, she is my friend and I like her." My boyfriend doesn't believe her and knows she's trying to break us up. But, she does bother me. And I'm sure she knows it. Which means she's laughing inside. Which means she succeeded in at least part of her evil plan. Seriously, if I don't post a message to this board every couple of days, send a search party. She is nuts.
Butchey Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 It nice to hear that there is someone out there almost as sick as my ex. It gives me hope. At least you can trust your friend who turned her down about the email thing. She does sound like she needs professional help. Just watch your back. These crazy people tend to come and go quickly. Maybe she will move. Hope that helps!?!
dnm1010 Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 i really dont know what to tell you... i hate exs... i havent had many- 2 and for the most part ive cut them out... my current bf has some xs though that make my blood boil... he doesnt care because they mean nothign to him and lately theyve stopped harassing us... i kinda feel like i understand hwo you feel even though hsi xs arent nearly as crazy as your bfs... i think its good that no one believs her. your boyfriend got his number switches cos of her ? well youre lucky because hes on your side.. he doesnt want communication with his x... maybe you can get some guy to treat herthe same way... in fact maybe your boyfriends friend will be willing. have you confronted her? i think you have every right to have that bother you but you shoudl be happy your bf is on your side.
ziggue Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 My Ex's Ex Girlfriend was Physco too. Guess it was all the drugs that she has had over the years. Lol. Even though I am not with the guy anymore. I still hate her guts. First of all. She's got a shaved head, third smashed my stuff I lent to my Ex, second of all wacked the baby when she knew I was inside while my Ex was outside with her trying to make me think that the baby was crying because my Ex was leaving. Third threatened me with phone messages on my mobile. Still. My Ex evenutally ended up going back to her. Crazy. I hate Ex's too.
savethedrama4allama Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 I'm checking in...still alive. Butchey, you're cracking me up there with the reference to your ex. Well she has moved around a bit and still continues the crap. Sure, if she moved to Oregon or something (from Michigan) it might help, but I don't forsee that happening... She has been doing this for 5 months with no contact from either of us and she continues. It may be worse right now because she has no boyfriend, but I don't know. She needs Paxil, or a hobby, or something. Thank you everyone for reading and writing. Obviously there is only so much I can vent about to my boyfriend because I fear the detriment to our relationship. I don't want her name to be brought up often because it'll give her power she doesn't deserve. Coming here to share with you helps immensely. So thank you!
savethedrama4allama Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Hey guys, A couple of my girlfriends suggest that I call this girl and give her a piece of my mind. They say that no contact hasn't been working because its been 5 months and she's still trying to get my boyfriend's attention and break us up and that I need to take action. I am still leaning towards no contact because I don't want to get involved in some catfight. It seems so immature and I don't know if it would get through to her anyway. It seems like me contacting her SHOWS that its getting to me. I also don't want any harassment or battery charges brought upon me. But if it would get it thorugh her thick skull, I would do it. As much as I hate to admit, it IS taking a toll on our relationship. Am I on the right track or should I be a little more hands-on with this? Opinions?
Stone Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Save yourself the headache and get a restraining order.
Fritz Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Tough call. Do you have records/proof of her continued harassment? If so, then yes call her up once and bitch her out. If she goes so far as to make a fuss of her own about it, you have evidence she's a loony and the cops won't take to kindly to her wasting their time. Tis rather sad these days that everyone seems to not respect people's personal relationships. Its depressing when I say something along the lines of, "Damn she's hot, too bad shes dating some guy" only to get a weird look and "whats that mean?" from some folks.
savethedrama4allama Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Well she has never contacted me directly- she doesn't know how. So I have nothing to document for a restraining order.
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