MadTheReaper Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 Hello everybody,I am using Ex2 System to get my ex-girlfriend back but I have a few questions. My girlfriend of two and half months broke up with me three week ago because I was "hypotonic" and I had to "wake up" and take initiative and be more energetic.Since then I have only contacted her once, about one week ago (I still hadn't read the book,sadly) and told her I still wanted to be with her.She was negative and told me her feelings had changed since the beginning of our relationship and that it was over.Since then I met her few times at school and just waved "Hello" with a cheerful smile. She avoids looking at me..why is that? Since I've made the mistake of contacting her ,when should I contact her? 3-4 weeks after the break up or the after the break up meeting? Also she is not on any social network, and the only way to make her jealous is at school.How can I do that? I was thinking of inviting of an attractive female friend just to take a class with me.Is that ok? Is the one big platonic meet up enough to show her how much I've improved? If it doesn't do so fully, do I ask her on another platonic hang out? or a date?
Chi townD Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 I got an idea. How about you stop trying to play games and just heal and move on? Trying to make her jealous? Really? Why? Probably the reason she ignores you and doesn't even look in your direction is because she has to demonize you in her eyes so she can justify in her head that breaking up with you was the right thing to do. She probably KNOWS that you are a nice guy, so why break up with a nice guy? It's all about HER hang ups and not about you, BUT she has to make it your fault. Let me ask you? At any time, did she take ANY blame for the demise of the relationship? Or was it about what YOU didn't do, or what YOU didn't say... The point to this is...once a girl decides it's over, then it's over. Women are usually the most stubborn creatures on the planet and when they finally decide on something, it's usually final. You'll have a better chance at teaching a horse to juggle than to get her to come back.... 1
Author MadTheReaper Posted April 3, 2013 Author Posted April 3, 2013 She said it wasn't my fault and I insisted on asking whether it was my behavior's fault or If I had changed and she said no.She said that her feelings had changed and I'm quite sure she didn't know why they had changed.
Chi townD Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 Okay...well...What does that change? Nothing...She still doesn't want to come back. So, you need to move on. You need to heal and not contact her. You need to male positive changes in your life.
Author MadTheReaper Posted April 3, 2013 Author Posted April 3, 2013 I have actually moved on, I have dated other girls. I have renewed my appearance and got rid of all my insecurities that made her go away. Have you read Ex2 System? If you have maybe you understand what I am saying and how I am trying to approach this issue.
TheFriend Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 The ex2 system and all of those other things you will find are crap:( I went through the phase where I was going to try anything to get her back. If you read on this site you will see that not really anyone has had success with the games that those systems teach. Your best bet is to try and move on. If it is ment to be it is ment to be. If you do have success with that system we would all love to hear about it. I am not tying to be a dick or discourage you but those systems are a made by douche bags who are taking advantage of people who are suffering from broken hearts like us. It should be illegal...
Author MadTheReaper Posted April 3, 2013 Author Posted April 3, 2013 I am really sorry to hear that about you. :/ Thanks for the answers anyway.
blindhope Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 I think if you need a "system" to get them back than its not worth it. You don't want someone who was tricked into being with you, or played on their emotions after a breakup. That doesn't mean you shoudl give up. Take some time and think before you act. Realize what was good and what was bad. If you can't see the bad then hesitate because you're not thinking clear(Even the best relationships have bad). But get yourself right and confident. Don't play games and don't plead or beg. Be real and honest. That way if it works out you'll know you have something real and honest. If not then that sucks, but atleast you'll know and then it's time to heal and move on.
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