FWB Fail. He slept with another girl in my house!

[TaraMaiden]

Are you serious OP?

 

A guy you have meaningless random sex with did something disrespectful?

 

Wow! Is everyone else is as shocked as I am?

 

Listen sweetheart, you can't have your cack and eat it too. You want a f*** buddy with none of the pesky annoyances of having a actual relationship and you got it. Don't cry to us when the dude treats you like someone he has sex with and nothing more.

 

Oh get off your high moral horse.

 

It's not 'meaningless random sex'...

It's meaningful - because they both want it, both enjoy it and both wnhat to be pleasured and to give pleasure -

 

It's not 'random' - Random is having sex with the first guy you happen to see, and then maybe another guy this afternoon and oh, what about THAT guy tomorrow morning....?

 

And even in situations where the sex is casual, and there is no lasting exclusive commitment, there is such a thing as not being a phukkwit about it.

 

And this guy was a phukkwit.

 

Your attitude is both condescending and judgemental.

It's none of your business how she conducts herself sexually.

If this is what she enjoyed - and he was an apparently willing and enthusiastic partner. - what's your problem?

[pbjbear]

Oh get off your high moral horse.

 

It's not 'meaningless random sex'...

It's meaningful - because they both want it, both enjoy it and both wnhat to be pleasured and to give pleasure -

 

It's not 'random' - Random is having sex with the first guy you happen to see, and then maybe another guy this afternoon and oh, what about THAT guy tomorrow morning....?

 

And even in situations where the sex is casual, and there is no lasting exclusive commitment, there is such a thing as not being a phukkwit about it.

 

And this guy was a phukkwit.

 

Your attitude is both condescending and judgemental.

It's none of your business how she conducts herself sexually.

If this is what she enjoyed - and he was an apparently willing and enthusiastic partner. - what's your problem?

 

 

Look at the location in his profile. Enough said

[ascendotum]

I never said I wanted more from this guy.

 

Just don't f*ck another girl in my house. It's as simple as that.

 

The girl my FWB slept with is in complete and total love with him. I heard from my brother my FWB thinks she's a psycho. So you know he was just using her for the night. I don't know why. Was it because I was on vacation and unavailable? Boredom?

 

Before I left he got pissed at me that I was on the phone with another guy, according to him for 'an hour', and he stormed out of my house.

 

Maybe he was trying to hurt me. I don't know.

 

But in either case what he did was unforgivable.

 

I agree with your thoughts/theories expressed here. The nature of the relationship you favour I would call F-buddy/booty call as opposed to FWB, since you don't even want to chat or spend time with the other person outside of the bedroom. Anyway that's my differentiation. I know a number of women have fwb/fbuddy relationships and say how they have an arrangement were they don't sleep with others. Nice in theory but a little naive. You don't seem disappointed over that aspect with is cool, but much more so over the violation of your personal space, which I absolutely understand and would be pissed off if I was in situation. Balling him out or just totally ignoring him, both have their pros & cons. I would favor just never saying anything to him again, so he is left wondering.

[William]

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