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kaylan Established Member

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Ok, my brother let my FWB (my brother doesn't know he was my FWB) use the house for 4 hours to be alone with this chick. I was away on vacation so I had no idea this was going on. If I were there, I wouldn't have allowed it. I don't like strangers in my house. Also, I had no clue about this girl until after I got home and noticed my bed looked slept in. When I asked my brother about it is when he told me, 'oh yeah' so and so was here with this shorty.'

Shorty?

 

That right there tells me your brother and this guy are both low class hood fools. How in the world would your brother think thats ok for him to let someone in your house for sex? In your bed?! And guy youre already sleeping with!? Id personally cut them both off for a long time for such disrespect.

 

Your brother obviously doesnt give a sh!!te about you.

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I was away on vacation. My brother (they are work colleagues and friends) told me he let him bring another girl inside the house and left them alone for 4 hours. She's totally in love with him and was thrilled to be in his company.

 

When I got back from my vacation I noticed my bed wasn't how I left it. I immediately thought my FWB was on there, probably f*cking his brains out with that other girl.

 

What hurts is that is where we had sex. How could he disrespect me so badly like that?

 

It's over between us for sure. But I don't know what to do. Should I confront him? Should I yell? Should I tell him how much it hurts what he did? Should I pretend I don't know anything and treat him like I would any ol' friend? Should I be distant and cold?

 

Help.

 

Confront him.

 

Make sure he knows this isn't some "I want you to be monogamous with me" complaint, but more "take your other girls someplace else...the only girl you get to f--k in this bed is me!"

kaylan Established Member

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PS - If my brother or a friend ever let someone screw in my bed, theyd be buying me mattress and sheets or theyd lose me in their life. Im serious about that...especially because Id never want to sleep in that bed again. Such disrespect.

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CryForNoOne Established Member

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But not in my own home. That just absolutely freakin' blows my mind.

 

I've got to agree that this is completely classless. Even if you were just friends and not FWB, that's totally disrespectful...

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Lisa_Lisa Established Member

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Shorty?

 

That right there tells me your brother and this guy are both low class hood fools. How in the world would your brother think thats ok for him to let someone in your house for sex? In your bed?! And guy youre already sleeping with!? Id personally cut them both off for a long time for such disrespect.

 

Your brother obviously doesnt give a sh!!te about you.

 

I do think my brother is an idiot letting strange girls his friends want to f*ck into the house - alone- for 4 hours. My brother's head is not on straight. I wouldn't let my friend's f*ck anybody in my house because I don't know who these people are. What if they're going through our things?

 

I seriously need to have a talk with my brother about this. He should have never allowed it to happen.

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Confront him.

 

Make sure he knows this isn't some "I want you to be monogamous with me" complaint, but more "take your other girls someplace else...the only girl you get to f--k in this bed is me!"

 

 

I agree. That girl came all the way from New Jersey to f*ck my FWB and then wanted my brother to drive her home. Imagine if he had done that. My brother would have used MY car and my gas...but because he had to pick me up from the airport he didn't do it. It makes me wonder what the hell my brother is thinking sometimes.

 

I don't think I'll be able to keep my mouth shut...I'm going to confront my FWB when I see him. I think it might be tonight since he's coming down from upstate. What he did was disgusting and unforgivable.

MidwestUSA Established Member

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I think it's more that I have confidence. How many men could successfully pull this off: :laugh:

 

Dayyum, the guy next to you is more in my age bracket. :(

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TaraMaiden Established Member

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:lmao: You just made me burst out laughing.

 

 

YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO LAUGH, YOU JERK - YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE UNDRESSING!!!!

 

:mad:

 

 

 

 

 

:D

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TaraMaiden Established Member

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Dayyum, the guy next to you is more in my age bracket. :(

 

Cool.

That's what I like.

Less competition...:cool:

 

You need to set your sights higher, gurl..............:laugh:

MidwestUSA Established Member

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Cool.

That's what I like.

Less competition...:cool:

 

You need to set your sights higher, gurl..............:laugh:

 

I've got me a young un, no worries. ;) I was just picturing that colorful tie on my bedpost!

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TaraMaiden Established Member

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I've got me a young un, no worries. ;) I was just picturing that colorful tie on my bedpost!

 

Yeah........

 

 

 

I need me three more......:p

 

(This is getting O/T and I'm getting very warm under the collar.)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(And yes, that WAS a euphemism...... :p)

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ThaWholigan Established Member

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I think it's more that I have confidence. How many men could successfully pull this off: :laugh:

:laugh: Dat blue swag

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To the OP: You use the word "should" a lot, but here is why it is flawed. No one else in the world is ever going to behave as you think they "should" behave. People are going to do what they want to do. The only thing you can control is whether or not they do it in your house. The person I'd be most angry at would be my brother, for letting them in. He'd have his key taken away pronto, or the locks would be changed.

 

This is becoming very personal to you, and it's really a matter of boundaries. I don't even know what you hope to accomplish by talking to your FWB. You said what he did was unforgivable, so why are you even giving him the time of day? I'd have absolutely no contact with him.

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Whoever your FWB is, he is a legend. Clearly, he doesn't give a **** whether you talk to him or not anymore.

MidwestUSA Established Member

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Vladimir Putin?

 

Yep. Do you think he'd be interested in a sugar daddy type arrangement?

RedRobin Established Member

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I still don't know what to do: keep quiet or confront him.

 

Look... he's not your 'friend' at any level. Write him off and move on. Make better or different choices next time.

 

I'm more concerned about your brother. What kind of brother lets other men treat you and your property this way??

 

It's the brother I'd be having a chat with... not the scumbag you decided to sleep with. He's not worth it.

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somedude81 Established Member

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Sleeping with another girl in your bed is pretty low.

 

But it's perfectly fine for him to sleep with as many girls he wants if you are only FWB's.

RedRobin Established Member

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I agree. That girl came all the way from New Jersey to f*ck my FWB and then wanted my brother to drive her home. Imagine if he had done that. My brother would have used MY car and my gas...but because he had to pick me up from the airport he didn't do it. It makes me wonder what the hell my brother is thinking sometimes.

 

I don't think I'll be able to keep my mouth shut...I'm going to confront my FWB when I see him. I think it might be tonight since he's coming down from upstate. What he did was disgusting and unforgivable.

 

oh wait! Coming down from Upstate!

 

ha ha... that made me laugh... just about ALL the men Upstate are turd-balls like this one. I just don't sleep with them.

 

Sorry, OP... seeing this drama play out with other people acquainted with Upstate men (or single men from the NE in general) makes me even more ready to f-ing move.

 

I dunno about confronting anyone. I mean, what are you hoping for, an apology? He obviously has zero conscience or couth. Faggeda 'bout it! Find classier people for FWB or just stop having FWB.

 

oh, and ditch any shared responsibility you have with your brother. He obviously isn't up to the task....

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Lisa_Lisa Established Member

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It'll be hard to avoid him.

 

He lives across the street from me and is usually always at my house. He also works closely with my brother. He went to visit his sister upstate, but he is not originally from there.

 

At worst, I won't talk to him. At best, confront him, get an apology, and he won't do it again if he knows I have a problem with it. A lock on my door will insure that he not repeat his behavior.

TaraMaiden Established Member

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Honestly, I don't even know that dude. Just ended up sitting next to him at that wedding.

 

(I thought she meant the white-hired guy I now see is actually sitting behind you..... :o:D )

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Lisa_Lisa Established Member

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From now on, if I want sex, I'll go to my old FWB. I can't stand him, hahaha.

somedude81 Established Member

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From now on, if I want sex, I'll go to my old FWB. I can't stand him, hahaha.

 

I'll be your FWB :cool:

Me too.

 

I'll even sleep with bittersweet in her brothers bed if that would make her feel better.

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TaraMaiden Established Member

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I'll be your FWB :cool:

 

Cheater.

 

You're dumped. :mad:

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Lisa_Lisa Established Member

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I'll be your FWB :cool:

 

Oooh la la, yes!

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Lisa_Lisa Established Member

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Me too.

 

I'll even sleep with bittersweet in her brothers bed if that would make her feel better.

 

Woo hoo! I got me 2 lined up, hehe.

 

I played with the thought of one day - when my FWB and brother are in the house - telling them to leave cause I got somebody coming over for a couple of hours. We'll see how FWB likes them apples.

 

He probably won't care, but at least I'll get laid.

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