Author MN85 Posted April 16, 2013 Author Posted April 16, 2013 Referring to your first reply. If you're not looking for a quick hookup, that's great. But if she wanted you to initiate something and you didn't, it looks like she lost some interest, you didn't man up enough. It seems like she wanted the opposite of you, so best to leave her go then instead of making yourself crazy, no? On the above quote... yeah, sure, there's no problem with that but you're not taking HER into account here. There's plenty girls who would probably like that and actually RESPECT that... but when you take a girl you've been seeing, back to your place for the first time then it implies intimacy... you said yourself, even SHE was pushing for you to be alone and kept pushing out her "deadline" while you stalled. And after all that, you didn't push things forward, you were too nice. Again, it just sounds like she wanted you to make a move and gave you plenty oppertunity. If you'd rather take it slow then that's no problem but you need to date a different girl who is also looking to take it slow. agreed - not making myself crazy Just trying to learn from mistakes - or, I guess, experiences in this case thx everyone
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