chaychay Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 (edited) So heres how the story goes.me and my ex were together for just over two years. I was the one who called it off. It didnt end on good terms. I ended it because I was convinced he was cheating. I gave him a numerous amount of second chances but it got to a point where I couldnt cope anymore. He was my first love. My first heartbreak. Its been eight months. I was coping just fine. I started dating again just recently. I met a guy who is all ive ever wanted. Where the problem starts is my ex has tried contacting me through friends. Through social network and by driving past places he knows ill be at. This has only happend since his friends have seen me with another guy. But eversince hes come back. All these memories. They wont go away. All I can think about now is him. I just need some help getting through this. I feel like noone really understands. What can I do? :/ And eversince. Ive started having weird feelings for this new guy. I adored him. And now sometimes I stop and think. And I start thinking that im not attracted to him. But then iam.. but then I feel as if ill never love him. I guess im in a sticky situation. My ex knows im miseeable. So I guess he seems to get some sort of sick twisted pleasure out of making things harder for me and causing me grief. My ex is constantly smoking weed. And I dont know what else he takes . I dont know why he does it. He just doesnt let me be. He comes back when I seem to be doing well. I dont know what to do I want to move on. I have to. But I cant.Not when I always see him around. I really dont know what to do. I just need someone to help me through it. Hes laughing at the fact that im miserable :/ Edited April 3, 2013 by chaychay
blindhope Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 Miserable is just temporary. And don't worry about what he's doing or how he's feeling. Worry about yourself. That's the true victory. he may be laughing on the outside, but if he's stalking you like this he is still attached to you. You'll know your past him when nothing about him matters and that takes time. But just keep that thought in mind and remind yourself when you need it. If he's concerned in any way about your happiness(lack of) he's still stuck on you, and the best way to get to him is not be affected by him. let him run around like the fool and just go about doing your thing.
cdt76 Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 Do you know for a fact he was cheating on you? Do you have proof? What makes you think he was cheating?
cdt76 Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 I didn't read the drug part. Sorry. Yeah, dump him and RUN! DON"T LOOK BACK. You need to focus on this new guy. See what he has to offer, which I'm sure is more than the last joker!
Author chaychay Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 Im pretty sure he was cheating. It was the same stories I heard eight times and the same excuses. Once or twice could've been a coincidence but eight or nine times isnt. And yeah ive been trying to do that
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