uniqwa Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 (edited) I am finding it extremely hard to move on.. I was with this man for two years, we did everything together.. I found no other faults in him besides the fact he was very magnetic. He was extremely social and made everyone fall in love with him, he could talk to intelligent people as well as ignorant and he never made anyone feel out of place. His sister is the reason for our separation, She had sent him an email saying " you are peace of **** and I am never going to be with you again, I'm not coming back". The next day I told him that I had not sent him the message and it was his sister yet it did nothing, he instead accused me of lying. Yet he had told me that he missed me and wanted to see me and was going to see me because he loved me those turned out to be lies..On the 14th is when he broke it to me that " he was never coming back" and he had found someone better. I later got through to her that I needed her to tell the truth. She was stuck on " he needs to learn a lesson, if you give in now he will never learn" I was assured nothing would happen besides him seeing that I deserved better from him and he needed to give more. I clung to the hope that he would realize that I didn't send the message, that I really loved him and I didn't leave him. but instead.. After having his mother talk to him and even she told him I didn't send the letter. He said this " that's not the only reason I left, she's so much better then her" he praised the girl to his mother and his mother told me everything he said, not because she wanted to.. I had to ask and promise her that I would move on. Now I know that there is nothing I could have done to save the relationship, at that point it was written in stone. he would not have moved on so quickly had he wanted to be with me. What gets me is the fact he told his mother " the only reason I didn't leave sooner was because I felt sorry for her, she doesn't think for herself, and she can't understand that I want nothing to do with her" I had been with him for two years and we had fights, we argued about stupid things. BUT things such as us getting along, we never conflicted, I understood his personality, I loved his freedom and perception and his humor. I fell madly in love with him and I thought he felt the same towards me.. I feel as though everything was a lie and that's literally what I can not get over.. He confessed to his mother that he "felt sorry for me" and couldn't help it because he had been with me for two years but he didn't want to be with me.. Edited April 3, 2013 by uniqwa needed to be clear.
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