ally211 Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 (edited) There's this guy at my local Coffee shop, I like him and I think he likes me to. Were both in Late teens He's seems like a confident/talkative person around his other workmates/girls who are friends that come in. I'm quite a shy/quite person, so I think that's why he hasn't ask me out as he's not sure if I like him. We both know each other names, we talk about general stuff when ever he server's me like how each other day was, and we also found out with both like supernatural the tv shows so talk about that as we'll. I don't really want to just say out right do you like me, as he may not like me and is just being supper friendly. But would you say that staring at someone 90% of the time your their for a bout 40secs and staring like i'm the only one around. He doesn't really smile when he stares but he does sort of do a gaze Also he doesn't seem to stare at anyone else Also on two occasions he said I was a very polite, and also says things like I hope you have a wonderful day, when I go in and collect my drink. Also once when I went in I was asking about their free wifi pass, and he made a bit of joke about it and now calls it wefe pass, when ever I go and ask for one. I was just searching on facebook the other day and happened to find him and some of page was open so had a read and found out he's been single for about 3 years, and that he loves disney movies, and supernatural. So next time I go and see him and he asks how I am could I say something like i'm ok just been think alot and realise i'm never going to find a guy. Then if he say why, then I could say,as I'm never going to find someone who loves, coffee, watching disney movies, supernatural and likes me for me. Could something like that make him realise that I'm looking for someone exactly like him and then he might ask me out. Or is their something better I can say to him. Please help Also I know it's part of customer services to be friendly but he just seems different around me Edited April 3, 2013 by ally211
Lani Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 This has been going on for a while. Didn't you get any good feedback in the other threads? Whatever you do, PLEASE don't go all 'I'm never going to find a guy' Instant turnoff for guys, trust me on this. I think if he was going to ask you out, he would have by now. You need to toughen up and do it yourself. Give him your phone number on a napkin or something if you're not brave enough. But it sounds to me like he's definitely not going to do it, so you will have to.
ArranHerry Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Just rush to him and say what you feel about him. And you know one have good chance for positive response if he/she propose with a beautiful gift to loved one. So don't get confused and just express yourself.
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