DrStrangelove Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 Long story short.. Met girl online, supper attractive. We text, (everyday, but only 2 or 3 times) We are going to meet in person, after only knowing each other 3 weeks. We've skyped once, talked on the phone 4 times. I try calling her, and she rarely answers? Playing hard to get? Anyways, she's 22. I already booked non refundable flights.. and she is booking the hotel, which she hasn't done yet. Is she acting so damn busy, doesn't want to get to involved w out meeting, supper shy? I want to say something, but don't want to push her away. Should I just text and say.. I understand your probably busy, but not answering, or trying to call back.. IDK hellp me lol
Author DrStrangelove Posted April 3, 2013 Author Posted April 3, 2013 Honestly she doesnt sound interested. There could be a multitude of reasons why. Sorry about your nonrefundables She called back, i missed the call accidentally, caller her twice - no pickup What I want to say on the phone - not sure if I should stop playing so damn hard to get are you not interested in a relationship im trying to get to know you by calling you - you don't seem to be interested i booked these flight tiks already - as you wanted me to "come on down" she was supposed to book hotel, which she hasn't done, still has 2 weeks. i might have scared her a little by telling her about an ex trying to contact me (my mistake) trust issues? shy? not interested? everyone on the internet is very quick to say not interested...
Author DrStrangelove Posted April 3, 2013 Author Posted April 3, 2013 Odds are she is not. Why will people on the internet say that? Assuming everything you are saying is actually accurate her actions dont portray herself as being interested. People on the internet are more likely to give you rational advice because they are looking at a situation that you describe objectively. A very wise person once said "actions speak louder than words." If I had heard and really comprehended that statement 6 years ago, I would have had very little bad dating experience today. People can say empty words all the time...actions show how they really feel unless they have psychological issues. I get from time to time people get busy, arent looking at their phone and so on. But youve described CONSISTENT actions that say "I am not interested" Not a one time thing, or even a once-in-awhile thing. That's is o so true, but I'm just saying that I come across that answer very frequently. I do agree - it is how the OP posts there story which makes the replies, essentially. Anyways, I get it - low/no interest. Why would she tell me to come on down and see her then? She said she would pay for the hotel, and drive us from Seattle to Portland.
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