lastresort Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 So today on the way to the gym a women that I hooked up with in the middle of my divorc contacted me. She must of heard that I was single again. She is smoking hot and a few years see than me. She wants to go out Thursday night. I'm up for it but here's the catch. My xg has been in my bed 2 of the last 3 days. I really wan to work it out with her but she tells me she doesn't want the pressure of a relationship right now. Do I accept that and move on or do I keep having sex with her hoping we will reconcile and get back together over time. Today we were at the gym and she told me she had stuff to take a shower at my house and the. Play around before her son got out of school. I love her so much and just want her back. Please help me figure this out. Thanks.
crustyjojo Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 If she does not want a relationship right now then she needs to leave you alone as a relationship is what you want - and right now you are not going to get it. Regarding the other woman at the gym, just let her know that you are just coming out of a relationship and you would like maybe to go out for company or whatever, but that is all is would be right now. Be honest - if that does not do it for her - then the timing is not right
TearyEyedPride Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 You're holding on to hope that your ex will want you back while she gets the benefits of a physical intimacy with you without the rest of the emotional commitment. Seems like a string that's kind of pulling you along. No judgement though. As for the girl at the gym, I agree with crustyjojo. You should go and enjoy her company, but be honest with her since you still have loose ends in your bed.
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