daynight Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Sooo 3months ( wow I can't believe I did it!!,thanks LS & the writers and everyone who encouraged me) I haven't seen/heard from my ex expect few texts here and there for exchanging our stuffs which never happened!! And I dont think it will ever happen because quite honestly I have no intention of seeing him again.I can see him happy and all on the photos his friends put in Facebook. So my question is should I delete all of our mutual friends or just his friends? I didn't delete them all because I thought it is none of their fault that we are no longer together and i still kind of think it is just rude to just delete them from fb! (Btw my ex deleted me from his fb after we broke up).but then sometimes I feel weird posting my photos with my friends having fun,going out etc. I feel like they are watching me and he is watching me!! Then again I say to myself I shouldn't care what other ppl think of me!I know I am a good person and its good if he can see I am happy without him. I am just confused can't make up my mind what to do!! Your opinion will be appreciated. Much thanks! Oya talk about first world problem!: P
steveT95 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 I wouldn't delete them. Many say it's best but if you are strong enough to be able to deal with occasionally seeing their name as you scroll through your newsfeed, why distance yourself from everyone else? That won't help you move on. You sound like a tough cookie, that is staying strong. It's been three months so after this amount of time of managing, I wouldn't bother deleting them.
Renard99 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 I wouldn't delete you mutual friends if they are genuine friends of yours. As for his friends, then, unless you're proper friends with them, then yes, delete them. If you're worried about seeing something posted by your ex on your mutual friends newsfeeds then actually block your ex in the privacy settings. I did that to my ex and not only does it 'erase her' from my feed (i.e all old posts from her disappear) but it also makes her disappear from my friend's newsfeeds as well. If a mutual friend has a conversation with her all I see is the mutual friend's posts and not hers.... It's actually funny because it looks like they're talking to themselves. If I comment on the same thing I'm told that my ex can't see my post either so again, it'll look, to her, like my friends are talking to themselves. The only downside is that you know that if you see a friend talking to themselves you know that your ex is being active but it's better than actually seeing what they've written, their face and their name!
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