He comes back after 7 months

[Amahon06]

shortened this so u guy could actually read it it was very long at first..here's the skinny. We were together for 7.5 years. He broke my trust badly causing me to always be on his case. We both have kinda done really bad things but his being the more devastating. We broke up in October and now he's back asking for another chance. Said he's changed, learned his lesson, I'm the only one he sees in his future, etc etc..but since we are 300 miles apart now he wants to take things slow..prob is we barley communicate..he's always not wanting to talk because he's "tired from work, phone died and fell asleep b4 it turned on, left it at work" always some excuse he's even admitted to being selfish bc he should want to come home and talk to me but wants to be by himself and just watch tv. Why even come back into my life if you didn't want to make an effort??? What does he expect? What does he want! Why did he come back then?! Ughhhhh!!!

Edited April 2, 2013 by Amahon06
Eh, needed to look appealing so I could ease my mind

[ForeverHopeful1]

I dont understand this at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont really have an answer for you, but jeesh, what a douche! I dont have any idea why he would do this, but unless and until he is serious, and starts acting like he wants to be with you, I would drop him!

[Amahon06]

I told him today to just go back to what he was doing for the past 7 months, because I didn't want someone coming back into my life just to drag my heart around and blow smoke up my hooha! I deserve better and I sure as heck don't deserve a one eighted effort whenever they were the one asking for a second chance..it's just disrespectful to my feelings to toy with me that way and I'm just done feeling this way..it's not worth putting my life on hold for hopeless dreams.

[Amahon06]

Yea he was that way before we broke up! Just got tired of dealing with the bull and moved home and let him live that bachelor life he seemed to have wanted to badly