candie13 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Don't mean to be burst your bubble, but being clean, nice, and treating people with kindness and willingness to spend some money doesn't automatically qualify you as "bf material". To me, "bf material" are those guys I am intrigued about, who trigger my curiosity, who have interesting hobbies, fresh ideas, who are original. It's more about how they are and what they think/ like, once you get over the looks. The looks are only the wrapping. Every girl on the planet wants the candy inside. So, IMHO, it's ok to be preoccupied with looks and clothes - btw, you need a hand at that department as well - but more importantly, you should be into the things... that actually interest you. That's what makes hot guys hot - they have their own lives, their own rhythm, their own passions. They know everything about the subjects that they feel passionate about. And their passions shape their life, their look, their mind, their outlook on society and their role in it. Educate yourself, think, read, listen to music, spend quality time with yourself. This is what shall draw people to you. Not a clean shirt, Hugo Boss, plain white or D&G... my 2 cents, anyway 3
sweetkiwi Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Well, I'm just thankful everyone here is alright Stop being so Damn happy with your little happy faces and positivity!!! Disgusting qualities in a man!!! 1
Imajerk17 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 I'm just seeing way too many smileys and whatnot in your writing. Screams Effeminate Nice Guy. I bet you get friendzoned a lot. 1
Noproblem Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Well. I always use the happy smile on Facebook I could be happy, laughing, angry, sad or even crying It's a sheild for some people
Author OzGuy776 Posted April 2, 2013 Author Posted April 2, 2013 Don't mean to be burst your bubble, but being clean, nice, and treating people with kindness and willingness to spend some money doesn't automatically qualify you as "bf material". To me, "bf material" are those guys I am intrigued about, who trigger my curiosity, who have interesting hobbies, fresh ideas, who are original. It's more about how they are and what they think/ like, once you get over the looks. The looks are only the wrapping. Every girl on the planet wants the candy inside. So, IMHO, it's ok to be preoccupied with looks and clothes - btw, you need a hand at that department as well - but more importantly, you should be into the things... that actually interest you. That's what makes hot guys hot - they have their own lives, their own rhythm, their own passions. They know everything about the subjects that they feel passionate about. And their passions shape their life, their look, their mind, their outlook on society and their role in it. Educate yourself, think, read, listen to music, spend quality time with yourself. This is what shall draw people to you. Not a clean shirt, Hugo Boss, plain white or D&G... my 2 cents, anyway Sure, I understand what you're saying, and I agree. I reckon I know a bit about my interests, I should anyway. Stop being so Damn happy with your little happy faces and positivity!!! Disgusting qualities in a man!!! Hahahaha, this always gets to people. I like those little faces on the right, I think they're funny I'm just seeing way too many smileys and whatnot in your writing. Screams Effeminate Nice Guy. I bet you get friendzoned a lot. Not really, I don't really have many girlfriends, so, technically I don't encounter the FZ much. I'm definitely not effeminate, I know that for sure.
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