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Hi guys,

 

First post on this forum, just want to say hi :) and if I could get some help with whether you believe that I am dating/boyfriend material?

 

I think I'm a nice person, I try not to use foul language, be respectful and mindful of others feelings/ideals. I pay for the meal when I go out with someone and I'm not pushy/clingy with women. Space is a-okay with me :laugh: so I'm happy to give a girl all she needs. Good with money and managing commitments, had plenty of practice so I'm pretty happy about that :D

 

I love working, I'm respectful of the law and I really enjoy hanging out with mates, skating, kickboxing, reading fantasy and playing Yu Gi Oh (Yes I'm a nerd x)

 

Just wanted to know if I am good looking in your opinion, and if I sound like an okay guy? I think I dress well, you cant' see it here but I'm currently kickin it in skate shoes, and they look awesome :laugh:

 

http://postimg.org/image/8au4kb76f/

 

I'm not fishing for compliments, tell me I'm ugly if you think necessary :D but I don't want to go asking out girls I feel for just yet, if I look like Quasimodo :love:

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Do you feel like you deserve to have a good girlfriend? If the answer is yes, then that's the only greenlight you need.

 

Though you should shave your head, and then wear a flower in your jacket like Nucky from Boardwalk Empire. Some facial tattoos would be pretty badass as well. Maybe some cats eye contact lenses to boot.

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You seem like a nice guy, a.k.a = You will love girls who will break your heart just because you were nice and not mean like the rest!

 

You look fine, above the average, you could enhance your style of cloths if you want to get more mature girls, but overall you are OK

 

One advice, even if you are a good and nice guy, try not to show it for the girl in front of you from the start, try to hide it a little

I'm not saying be mean, but you know!

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Do you feel like you deserve to have a good girlfriend? If the answer is yes, then that's the only greenlight you need.

 

Though you should shave your head, and then wear a flower in your jacket like Nucky from Boardwalk Empire. Some facial tattoos would be pretty badass as well. Maybe some cats eye contact lenses to boot.

 

While Tattoo are attractive, it might effect his career and future ....Some companies really hate tattoos, and some girls hate tattoos too!

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While Tattoo are attractive, it might effect his career and future ....Some companies really hate tattoos, and some girls hate tattoos too!

 

He should get some really colourful ones then, maybe Hello kitty or something, chicks love Hello Kitty.

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He should get some really colourful ones then, maybe Hello kitty or something, chicks love Hello Kitty.

 

I adore Hello Kitty

This is really a wonderful idea!

A black Hello Kitty to be more manly!

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Hi guys,

 

First post on this forum, just want to say hi :) and if I could get some help with whether you believe that I am dating/boyfriend material?

 

I think I'm a nice person, I try not to use foul language, be respectful and mindful of others feelings/ideals. I pay for the meal when I go out with someone and I'm not pushy/clingy with women. Space is a-okay with me :laugh: so I'm happy to give a girl all she needs. Good with money and managing commitments, had plenty of practice so I'm pretty happy about that :D

 

I love working, I'm respectful of the law and I really enjoy hanging out with mates, skating, kickboxing, reading fantasy and playing Yu Gi Oh (Yes I'm a nerd x)

 

Just wanted to know if I am good looking in your opinion, and if I sound like an okay guy? I think I dress well, you cant' see it here but I'm currently kickin it in skate shoes, and they look awesome :laugh:

 

View image: CAM00050

 

I'm not fishing for compliments, tell me I'm ugly if you think necessary :D but I don't want to go asking out girls I feel for just yet, if I look like Quasimodo :love:

 

dont get a tattoo hello kitty or otherwise.....you are fine.......have confidence to be a good guy, a nerd ,be who you are ....the right girl will find you or you will find the right girl......bad asses get their ass kicked....tatts are meh...dont lose your sense of humor.....or your friends over a girl....ever....best wishes....deb

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Do you feel like you deserve to have a good girlfriend? If the answer is yes, then that's the only greenlight you need.

 

Though you should shave your head, and then wear a flower in your jacket like Nucky from Boardwalk Empire. Some facial tattoos would be pretty badass as well. Maybe some cats eye contact lenses to boot.

 

I think I do. I think I have the mental tools needed to uphold my end of the relationship :) so, sure.

 

I am for everything on your list! except for tattooing my face, that is kind of weird :eek: but the flower in the jacket is a nice touch :)

 

You seem like a nice guy, a.k.a = You will love girls who will break your heart just because you were nice and not mean like the rest!

 

You look fine, above the average, you could enhance your style of cloths if you want to get more mature girls, but overall you are OK

 

One advice, even if you are a good and nice guy, try not to show it for the girl in front of you from the start, try to hide it a little

I'm not saying be mean, but you know!

 

Oh thank you :laugh:, that is not unfamiliar territory to me but, you know, you get over things. I don't let things like that ruin my perspective of relationships or the other gender so I think I'm all good :laugh:

 

Haha, I've never been into the ''treat em mean, keep em keen'' sort of thing, I just do my thing and I end up crossing paths with other people, usually on great terms :)

 

dont get a tattoo hello kitty or otherwise.....you are fine.......have confidence to be a good guy, a nerd ,be who you are ....the right girl will find you or you will find the right girl......bad asses get their ass kicked....tatts are meh...dont lose your sense of humor.....or your friends over a girl....ever....best wishes....deb

 

Thanks a lot Deb, and no I won't be getting any hello kitty tattoos any time soon :S

 

Thanks for you help guys :D

 

Would anyone else care to comment on what you think? I'd appreciate it :D

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You're a sweety. Those are the best types. Especially when they use foul language in bed:love:.

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You're a sweety. Those are the best types. Especially when they use foul language in bed:love:.

 

Hahaha, thanks Kiwi :D Maybe I'll have to try your tip about the bedroom :laugh:

 

Would any other girls care to comment? is my appearance a positive one? I shave every other day, I don't like growing facial hair :confused:

 

Maybe give me a rating out of ten, just for looks? No-one has ever really told me where I rank in looks so I'm quite curious.

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I would bang.

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I think you're honestly quite cute, although your hair looks a little thin (could just be the photo?) You remind me of a young David Beckham before all the tanning/weird hairstyles.

 

You look very British. Are you?

 

I have a few suggestions to enhance your looks. Dress better. Get your teeth whitened if you can afford it--I think this will make a huge difference. Do something with your hair; maybe crop it really short if it is indeed thinning.

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You should smell good! Always put on good perfumes!

I give u 6.5

If you dress better will be 8

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I think you're honestly quite cute, although your hair looks a little thin (could just be the photo?) You remind me of a young David Beckham before all the tanning/weird hairstyles.

 

You look very British. Are you?

 

I have a few suggestions to enhance your looks. Dress better. Get your teeth whitened if you can afford it--I think this will make a huge difference. Do something with your hair; maybe crop it really short if it is indeed thinning.

 

Thank you :laugh: yes my hair is a little thin, I just had it cut and I like it quite short, so it probably does appear a little thin.

 

I am mostly English, yes. My surname would give that away though anyway :laugh:

 

Really? I thought I dressed pretty well :confused: kind of a street sort of look, but still a nice casual? what would you suggest? and my teeth are actually quite white, they don't look it in the picture though. And my consumption of coffee doesn't help either :o I do need to stop that.. I think it makes me look older sometimes... D'oh! now I feel self conscious, hahaha :laugh:

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I think the number system is bullsheet so I refuse to give you a number.

 

Your dimples are excellent. You look a bit young for me. And the clothes don't help at all.

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Thank you :laugh: yes my hair is a little thin, I just had it cut and I like it quite short, so it probably does appear a little thin.

 

I am mostly English, yes. My surname would give that away though anyway :laugh:

 

Really? I thought I dressed pretty well :confused: kind of a street sort of look, but still a nice casual? what would you suggest? and my teeth are actually quite white, they don't look it in the picture though. And my consumption of coffee doesn't help either :o I do need to stop that.. I think it makes me look older sometimes... D'oh! now I feel self conscious, hahaha :laugh:

 

No, I think the street look is cute and fits your type of looks but I just don't like the particular clothes you are wearing...something about the hoodie is too little boyish. And I don't like the prints. I think you'd look hot in a nice leather jacket, maybe over a classic white shirt. Think street but more classic, clean and stylish?

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You should smell good! Always put on good perfumes!

I give u 6.5

If you dress better will be 8

 

Oh believe me, I always smell good!! personal hygiene is one of my paranoia things, I obsess about it.. I always brush my teeth, shave, shower, clean up, maintain excellent oral hygiene, always clean my ears and wear deodorant, sometimes cologne. Yeah, I'm pretty clean I'd say :) I should be though!

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Looking more carefully at your photo it almost appears as if your haircut is uneven -- randomly longer on top?

 

*I agree with another poster that numbers are BS. I don't think most women quantify looks the way men try to. Either someone is attractive to us or not.

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Now, tell us the truth?

Do you still think about her?

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I think the number system is bullsheet so I refuse to give you a number.

 

Your dimples are excellent. You look a bit young for me. And the clothes don't help at all.

 

Ok, I'm cool with that :)

 

I forgot I had those, but it's good to know that they work in my favor.

 

Damn it! I thought I was looking pretty hip! haha (I'm trying to be sarcastic :) )

 

No, I think the street look is cute and fits your type of looks but I just don't like the particular clothes you are wearing...something about the hoodie is too little boyish. And I don't like the prints. I think you'd look hot in a nice leather jacket, maybe over a classic white shirt. Think street but more classic, clean and stylish?

 

Oh ok that's fair enough, it isn't for everyone :) but damn it is pretty comfy :) I rarely wear hoods unless I'm out for a run and it is cold to be honest.

 

I'll upload a picture of me in a leather jacket with a white shirt and jeans soon enough, maybe then I'll look a bit better? I think everyone is telling me to change the clothes. I have a nice jacket and white shirts but I don't wear them unless I'm going for a job :laugh:

 

 

 

 

 

Looking more carefully at your photo it almost appears as if your haircut is uneven -- randomly longer on top?

 

*I agree with another poster that numbers are BS. I don't think most women quantify looks the way men try to. Either someone is attractive to us or not.

 

Haha, I understand that, sorry for that one :rolleyes: I suppose I'm just trying to get an easy answer, but it is a bit more complex than that. And I had a look at my hair, and it is all pretty even all around. I asked my parents and they said it looked fine, so I think it's just the photo to be honest. I'm really not too photogenic :eek:

 

Now, tell us the truth?

Do you still think about her?

 

No :D never. I moved on a long time ago, and now I'm just looking forward to meeting a great new girl to move into a place of our own with. That is, if she wants that for herself/us. I'm good at letting things go I think, people, money and the weather all have one thing in common, they come and go. So I keep on working, keep on walking, just hold my chin up and do the best I can really :)

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But, she had left an effect on your confidence or else you wouldn't have posted this thread!

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But, she had left an effect on your confidence or else you wouldn't have posted this thread!

 

I don't think that's what happened :) I'm pretty confident in myself to be honest. I've had one serious relationship so far, so I'm just after honest opinions from other females on how I seem, at least through text, and if I am physically attractive. I mean, these answers I've been given are gold compared to some other people's that I've read. People can say some pretty mean stuff over the internet, though I don't know why they feel the need to do that. I guess since you've all been quite nice, that's just an indicater that I must be alright in the looks department :)

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People are meaner on the internet because it's easier and most of them have been hurt or have issues ...So being mean is their way of curing themselves .....

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People are meaner on the internet because it's easier and most of them have been hurt or have issues ...So being mean is their way of curing themselves .....

 

Well, I'm just thankful everyone here is alright :)

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