readytodate123 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Besides looking beautiful, sexy, wearing cute clothes, and things like that, what's your strategy for making guys fall in love with you? Acting naive or clumsy? (thus making them want to help you) Showing your girly side? Being yourself? (<-does this really work on your first date? lol)
Noproblem Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Well, you can always: Care for a day and ignore for 3 days That will work at the beginning, then later, it's about genuine communications and feelings! 1
Noproblem Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 ...when it started out oh so genuine. Have to maintain the illusion. Good idea! Honesty won't lead you anywhere if you ask me!
todreaminblue Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Besides looking beautiful, sexy, wearing cute clothes, and things like that, what's your strategy for making guys fall in love with you? Acting naive or clumsy? (thus making them want to help you) Showing your girly side? Being yourself? (<-does this really work on your first date? lol) not into making guys fall in love with me.....its not how it should be ....they either do or they dont......you cant truly make someone love you..bonnie raitt sang it i think she got it right. I Can't Make You Love Me - Bonnie Raitt (1991) with lyrics - YouTube .deb 3
sweetkiwi Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 I am just myself. Works like a charm ...especially on the stalker types... 8
Amahon06 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 To be honest I try just being myself for the most part. We do try tha cutesy act but it's mostly just us being ourselves. If we really like u we try to find activities to include u in regardless the activity but we try to do something u enjoy also...if she's always extending the invite or respondes to you quickly...she likes u...now it's on u to make her fall in love 1
sweetkiwi Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Are you implying you are too creepy for even the creepiest creeps? Do we know eachother??
Drseussgrrl Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard... Poop with the door open. 7
sweetkiwi Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 I have a really gross one... Put menstrual blood in their coffee...or have them drink your breast milk. 4
KraftDinner Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 In the past, the only thing I've done that wasn't being myself was to try not to appear too clingy. The rest...why bother? 1
Jane2011 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Only twice in my life have I felt like a guy was truly "in love" with me, and in both cases I did absolutely nothing! 2
DannyMason Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 ...or have them drink your breast milk. This isn't actually gross. 3
will1988 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 I have a really gross one... Put menstrual blood in their coffee...or have them drink your breast milk. don't forget to contact your local Voodoo witch doctor and have them make you a doll of the man you fancy. 2
rocketman122 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Poop with the door open. and you say "dude gross" to me huh? im trying to convince my GF to let me see her take a #2. Ive seen her do #1's and have tasted it. now you can say "dude gross" 1
ScreamingTrees Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 and you say "dude gross" to me huh? im trying to convince my GF to let me see her take a #2. Ive seen her do #1's and have tasted it. now you can say "dude gross" Dude, gross.. 6
TouchedByViolet Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 As a guy, things that work on me are yoga pants, lip biting, hair playing, and accidentally dropping something to bed over and pick it up 2
RedRobin Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Turn around and show him the booty... Wait. that's not LOVE! ha ha I think the bigger question is what makes ME fall in love with a guy... or what makes me feel like they really love me. Lots of guys have said they 'loved' me... but I just don't see it. It seems so superficial on their end. A lot of men find me interesting and a challenge. I think they are in love with the idea of me... and not really me at all. So, I don't really know what to tell you, OP. There are very few men who seem to 'get' me... and I admit I'm not trying that hard to be 'gotten'. Reminds me of a favorite quote... "These roses under my window make no reference to former roses or to better ones; they are for what they are; they exist with God to-day. There is no time to them. There is simply the rose; it is perfect in every moment of its existence. Before a leaf-bud has burst, its whole life acts; in the full-blown flower there is no more; in the leafless root there is no less. Its nature is satisfied, and it satisfies nature, in all moments alike." Emerson, Self-Reliance 3
sweetkiwi Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 This isn't actually gross. No I am a huge advocate of breast milk. Good stuff. The gross one was the menstrual blood in the coffee. But even that doesn't gross me out. But sneaking it in his coffee does. Hey Rocket, my man wants to drink my pee too. THAT'S LOVE. 2
will1988 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 No I am a huge advocate of breast milk. Good stuff. The gross one was the menstrual blood in the coffee. But even that doesn't gross me out. But sneaking it in his coffee does. Hey Rocket, my man wants to drink my pee too. THAT'S LOVE. I'm into kinky stuff but vag blood, urine, and scat aint my thing.
miss_jaclynrae Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 I am me. It works better than I want it to sometimes 1
sillyanswer Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 In the past, the only thing I've done that wasn't being myself was to try not to appear too clingy. Yes, this! Too clingy too soon is a huge turn-off.
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