thingshavechanged Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 ive been in no contact for about 3 weeks now, broken up for a month.. tonite, my friend just told me that last week, my ex gf texted him asking if i was ok.... shes been off my mind for a while and now that hes mentioned it, she keeps popping back into my mind im curious as to what this means....does it mean anything? or nothing at all? lol
Thunderchild Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 ive been in no contact for about 3 weeks now, broken up for a month.. tonite, my friend just told me that last week, my ex gf texted him asking if i was ok.... shes been off my mind for a while and now that hes mentioned it, she keeps popping back into my mind im curious as to what this means....does it mean anything? or nothing at all? lol If she hasn't been in contact directly it means nothing. If she really wants to hear from you she'll be in touch. If not, just keep the No Contact going.
Chi townD Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Means nothing. She just wants to know if you're okay and that you don't hate her. Doesn't mean that she wants to come back at all.
CorridorE Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Try your best to put her out of your mind, not read into it, and continue with no contact. She asked your friend because she was curious but didn't want to speak to you. It probably means nothing because if she really wanted to know how you were, she would ask you herself.
Lillygoose Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 What the others said, She is bored and curious and wants to see how you are. Don't give her the time of day! and good going on the nc so far!! x
TearyEyedPride Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 Yeah... like everyone else said... she's just being nosy and wants to make sure she's still the best survivor of this breakup. If she really cared... she'd reach out directly. And a "how are you?"... has nothing to do with how they feel about you... it's more about wanting to know where your life, emotions, and thoughts are.
Author thingshavechanged Posted April 3, 2013 Author Posted April 3, 2013 i dont know, i thot she was different from all the other girls.... i dont know how to explain it.... but yea i wont break nc unless she does.... she knows my number
chaychay Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 Ive had that happen to me. I seem to be doing fine until my ex comes back. What she said means nothing. I know its easier said than done but slide it to the back of your head and forget she even asked.
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