NervisPervis Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 If his ONS's are not related to his wife's infidelity then that actually contradicts your later argument that they were done to aid the OP's recovery. As it is, his ONS's are entirely relevant to the future of this marriage and the so called need for the truth. As for judgemental advice, what is this then: You are bascally saying it is ok for him to be unfaithful, but not her. I do wonder if this was the other way round in that the husband had been unfaithful and then the wife had two "revenge" ONS, whether she would get the same support as the OP has had from some posters. There is no justification in so called revenge ONS or affairs. It is wrong, simple as that. The OP is no worse and no better than his wife (yet apparently me saying that is being judgemental!) I rest my case.
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